Marriage and relationship counseling with Pastor Ruva

Marriage and relationship counseling with Pastor Ruva Everyday is a chance you get to learn .... That relationship can work out

When choosing a partner do not just look at the good they do. Take a look at what they do or say when they are angry,hu...
23/09/2024

When choosing a partner do not just look at the good they do. Take a look at what they do or say when they are angry,hungry,sad etc love is just like life,it is not a series of pleasure ...it has ups and downs. It is what you do during the period of being down that will determine if you will enjoy the up period. Fighting is normal as a couple but it is not the end,work your way out of the fight not the relationship.

Many times partners find it hard to listen to each other due to many reasons. Some of the reasons being that,the man say...
05/10/2023

Many times partners find it hard to listen to each other due to many reasons. Some of the reasons being that,the man says i am the man so automatically i have to be listened to,the woman also uses being a woman as a reason to be listened to. You just don't get listened to because you have spoken. Create a platform,environment as well as a reason to be heard. In the book of Acts,the very first chapter it is written"... of all that Jesus began both to do and teach", learn something here Jesus did not just do but also went on to teach. What have you done as a person that can cause someone to listen to you, no one has mentioned anything about being believed or being heard ....just being listened to. It starts with us as individuals,what has become of us,what is it that we do. When your partner looks at you what do they see? Someone who breaks promises? Someone who says things for the sake of it?Someone who lies? Before you can ask your partner to listen to you ask yourself if you have become a person worth listening to? You can trust the Word of God because God says what He means and means what He says...can the same be said of you? For the sake of the future and your partner even yourself be disciplined enough to work on yourself before giving yourself to others. Be worthy.

12/07/2023

A relationship can start because of appearance and whole lot of other things that dont matter...but a marriage is as a result of a Decision that will require more other decisions. You have to choose your partner not once,not twice or thrice but every time. Feelings should never be the foundation of a marriage because with time and with changes they change....change of weather, change of environment etc can cause your feelings to change therefore they cannot be trusted enough to build marriage on them. Marriage is as a result of a decision that is made by two people. When the going gets tough or unbearable you don't change your decision but rather you make a decision to keep the decision that you made,not just of loving but of being with the person you chose... It is not everyone that you asked out or that asked you out that you marry ...you get to choose one and not just that..you have to keep on choosing that one person. Love is that power that strengthens you to stick with your decision....

27/10/2022

I have heard about relationships that came to an end because of third parties and it should not be so. It is your responsibility to have yo partner's back,to be their eyes and ears even their lawyer if need be. Anyone who tries to talk bad about your partner make it straight with them there and there it doesn't matter who it is. It can be her mother or his father but you are her husband or you are his wife.Dont allow other people to determine the terms of yo relationship or marriage,this is yo own fish you choose how you want to have it. At some point God was in a special relationship with Moses,Aaron and Miriam the siblings of Moses started to speak against Moses and you know wat, Moses did not hear a thing it was God who heard them. God did not leave the issue to be addressed by Moses when he gets to hear about it probably when half the people now knows, No.God defended his partner. You can make people respect or disrespect your partner based on how relate with them. These were the siblings of Moses so the relatives of your partner can be against your partner or even try to pull him down,don't say it's not my fight it is a family thing,No. You're more than family You're their spouse don't allow nobody to treat them however.

12/10/2022

No one is immune to pain but the pain one goes through should never define them or even detect things for them. Forgiving your partner does not mean you are desperate,neither does it mean you were not hurt. Being able to forgive them means what you share is stronger than their mistakes.

You don't neglect your first role because you have qualified for another. You don't stop being a woman because you have...
10/10/2022

You don't neglect your first role because you have qualified for another. You don't stop being a woman because you have become someone's wife. However others have a tendency of forgetting that they are wives/husbands when they become mothers/fathers. A family is a combination of people with different roles to play yet one goal to achieve. Don't love your partner and neglect the children or the other way round. Being a mother doesn't excuse you from your role of being a wife or a woman in the society same with men.

10/10/2022

You do not have time not to show love to your partner. Yes be mad it's good but don't stay mad. Every second counts because u can't buy another. The fact that you were privileged to be given this minute doesn't mean the same will happen in the next. Tomorrow was not promised to anyone so give today all you have. Imagine reserving some love for your partner and then he doesn't come back because he is dead. Call him/her,text,video call,tell them how much you love them and how much you've missed them from the last time you saw them even if it was in the morning or five minutes ago. This is the time you have use it.
Love doesn't have to be a secret,it should be shown,shared and expressed.

When you pray together as a couple there is some sort of attachment that happens,there is a bond that is created. You wi...
23/09/2022

When you pray together as a couple there is some sort of attachment that happens,there is a bond that is created. You will be unstoppable as partners but you will have to have each other's back because there will be more attacks. Not everyone is happy for you,not everyone wants you to be in a relationship or marriage. Marriage requires prayer but not just prayer.

Everyone wants the fine things this life can offer....be careful to take what is yours.
04/09/2022

Everyone wants the fine things this life can offer....be careful to take what is yours.

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