City of Xenia Victim Advocate Division

City of Xenia Victim Advocate Division Provides services to any victim of misdemeanor crimes with cases pending in the Xenia Municipal Court jurisdiction.

Services are provided to all victims without regard to race, color, religion, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or expression, national origin, age, genetic information, disability or veteran status. Victims of federal crimes will also be served. This project is supported by VOCA and SVAA funding under the State Victim Assistance Act, through the Ohio Attorney General's Office.

04/13/2026

Today is the Global Day to End Child Sexual Abuse, and April is Child Abuse Prevention Month. Child sexual abuse and domestic violence are deeply connected: children in homes with DV face a heightened risk of abuse, and many adult DV survivors carry histories of childhood trauma. Breaking these cycles means protecting both children and survivors.

Children's advocacy centers throughout Ohio provide trauma-informed forensic interviews, advocacy, and support for children who have experienced abuse. If you or someone you know needs help, visit our partners at the Ohio Network of Children's Advocacy Centers: https://www.oncac.org/

03/31/2026

The memory loss from deep depression and trauma is not talked about enough. It's not just forgetting small things — it's watching entire pieces of yourself disappear.

People talk about depression like it's just sadness. Like it's crying a lot and struggling to get out of bed. They don't talk about the gaps. The way you can look back at entire years of your life and find almost nothing there. Not because nothing happened — but because your brain was operating in pure survival mode. Using every available resource just to keep you functional. Recording life wasn't a luxury it could afford.

And then one day someone mentions something that happened — a birthday, a conversation, a moment that clearly meant something — and you have no trace of it. Nothing. And the shame of that is its own kind of pain. Because you weren't absent by choice. You were there. Your body showed up every single day. But something vital inside you had already gone somewhere quieter just to cope.

That's not weakness. That's what prolonged stress and unprocessed trauma actually does to a human brain. It rewires. It protects. It sacrifices memory to manage survival. The science is real even when the experience feels like a personal failure.

You didn't lose those years because you weren't present enough. You lost them because you were carrying something too heavy for anyone to carry alone.

That's not a character flaw. That's what surviving looks like from the inside.

03/30/2026
03/30/2026

Did you know that WomensLaw has Quick Guides covering all sorts of legal topics for victims and survivors of abuse?

Check out "Custody Basics" or any of our other Quick Guides. (You can always reach out to our team on the free WomensLaw Email Hotline for additional support!) https://buff.ly/bRmWOb6

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03/13/2026

This event is Free to Attend.
Parking is free and the address for parking is 320 W. 4th Street
Dayton Ohio and is under building 12.
Free Raffle
Hors d'oeuvres
ASL interpreters
Breakout Sessions

03/13/2026

On the night of June 5, 1986, Marla Hanson stepped out of a Manhattan bar expecting a simple exchange. She was there to collect an $850 security deposit her landlord, Steven Roth, owed her. She had already rejected his romantic advances. That refusal, it turned out, was unforgivable to him.

As they walked, two men came out of nowhere.

One grabbed Hanson’s head and held it still. The other used razor blades to slash her face, carving deep S-shaped wounds across her cheeks. Roth didn’t intervene. He stood by and watched. When it was over, Hanson was left bleeding on the street, her face permanently altered.

Doctors stitched her wounds more than 150 times. The scars ended her modeling career and marked her life forever. Soon after, investigators uncovered the truth: Roth had hired the attackers—Darren Norman and Steven Bowman—to punish her for rejecting him. All three men were convicted and sentenced to five to fifteen years in prison.

But for Hanson, the worst ordeal was still ahead.

During the trial of Norman and Bowman, defense attorney Alton Maddox turned the courtroom into another site of violence. He attacked Hanson’s character instead of the crime, calling her someone who “preyed on men,” branding her “that lying bitch,” and suggesting she had “racial hangups” and falsely accused her Black attackers. Hanson later said that standing on the witness stand—humiliated, blamed, and verbally assaulted—was more traumatizing than the slashing itself.

The justice system had punished her attackers. But it had also allowed her to be publicly torn apart.

Hanson refused to disappear into that cruelty. She spoke out against a system that let victims be degraded in the name of defense. She rebuilt her life, becoming a victims’ advocate and a screenwriter, and dedicated herself to helping other slashing survivors recover—not just physically, but emotionally.

Her story is not only about violence, but about survival after it. About how trauma doesn’t end with stitches or sentences. And about the strength it takes to turn personal devastation into a voice for others—especially in a world that so often tries to silence the wounded instead of the guilty.

A Fictional Glimpse

Imagine a young survivor named Elena, sitting in a support group decades later. She looks at Hanson’s story printed on the wall and asks softly:

“Did you ever feel like giving up?”

Hanson, older now, with faint scars still visible, smiles gently.

“I did,” she says. “But then I realized that my pain could become someone else’s shield. And if I stayed silent, the cruelty would have won twice.”

And it leaves us with a question:

When the law punishes those who hurt us, but society continues to shame and silence us, how do we reclaim our voice—and ensure that survival becomes not just endurance, but empowerment?

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Xenia, OH

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Monday 8am - 5pm
Tuesday 8am - 5pm
Wednesday 8am - 5pm
Thursday 8am - 5pm
Friday 8am - 5pm

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