04/20/2026
Coming forward is a difficult decision for survivors. We believe them!
When someone comes forward, people often try to attack the very notion of speaking up and assume they have ulterior motives. This is especially cruel considering that, in reality, oftentimes the opposite is true.
For example, people believe that survivors speak out, report, or file lawsuits purely for money, when research shows that key motivators are things such as justice, closure, and protecting others. In reality, the individual costs (e.g. therapy, medical, relocation, legal, career) far outweigh anything a the vast majority of survivors will ever receive.
If questioning the motive of someone sharing their story is your default response, we encourage you to take a moment to learn more about the truth regarding sexual violence by visiting Survivors.org, or checking out the rest of our profile.