02/19/2026
In a powerful conversation with Ezra Klein, conflict resolution facilitator and author of The Art of Gathering, Priya Parker reflects on her formative experience with Sustained Dialogue at the University of Virginia, and why the United States needs to gather across differences more than ever.
When Parker and her peers launched SD circles at the University of Virginia in 2001, they learned something crucial. The most transformative groups weren't just diverse; they brought together students with clear, specific differences: College Republicans and LGBTQ+ students, Jewish American and Arab American students.
"We had incredible conversations. We went into territory we barely ever get to go into." [...] "Everyone knew exactly why they were in the room. That clarity created the container for genuine depth."
Parker's insight is urgent: "If Americans don't gather more and across differences, we'll slide further into authoritarianism. The antidote is connection."
We need spaces where people can practice building relationships across cultural, political and generational differences; the kind of relationships that a strong democracy requires. This is the work Sustained Dialogue has honed in colleges, communities and workplaces over the last 20+ years.
Watch the excerpt below, in which Priya reflects on those UVA circles and her training with former diplomat and founder of the Sustained Dialogue Institute, Dr. Harold Saunders.
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Full interview and transcript: Is Your Social Life Missing Something? This Conversation Is for You. Published on Feb. 3, 2026
https://www.nytimes.com/2026/02/03/opinion/ezra-klein-podcast-priya-parker.html