07/31/2026
International Friendship Day was this week and is the perfect time to remember one of Port Gibson's most remarkable friendships.
On May 1, 1863, William Duffner marched with Union forces during the Battle of Port Gibson. He could not have known that the home where part of the fighting took place belonged to the Shaifer family—or that after the war he would become close friends with Abram Keller Shaifer Jr., who had served on the opposite side of the conflict.
Years later, Duffner wrote to the Port Gibson Post Office requesting a map of the battlefield. His letter reached Abram Shaifer, who replied that the battlefield Duffner was trying to locate had been his family home. That unexpected connection sparked a friendship that lasted for years.
The two veterans exchanged letters, visited one another during reunions, and shared gifts. Among the most meaningful was the "Duffner Chair," painted with a scene of the May 1, 1863, battle – a reminder that a place once marked by war had become a symbol of friendship.
Their story is a powerful reminder that even after our deepest divisions, understanding and respect can bring people together. Happy International Friendship Day!
NPS Photo: Abram Keller Shaifer Jr. poses next to a double rocker chair depicting the battle of Port Gibson gifted to him by William Duffner. The “Duffner chair” is a part of the Mississippi Department of Archives and History museum collection and is on display at the Museum of Mississippi History.
NPS Photo: Group of Civil War veterans adorned with medals pose in front lawn of Shaifer house. Amanda Guice Shaifer and Abram Keller Shaifer Jr. are pictured second and third in the front row from the left.
NPS Photo: Group of Civil War veterans pose in front of an unknown home circa 1901. Image is captioned, “Survivors of The Battle of Port Gibson, May the first 1863. From The Blue to The Gray.” Seated from left to right – William Duffner, I. Phipps, A. S., G. Flora, Major Kelley, J. Keynon, and Lieut. Moore. Back row, left to right – Captain Moore, W. Walker, H. Craimer, Allen Edward, R. C. Hart, G. Barnard, W. H. Edwards