05/25/2026
Heartfelt Memorial Day post about 2/4 Marines' losses in Ramadi during the 2004 deployment. Memorial Day isn't just about BBQ, folks. R.I.P. Warriors.
Memorial Day means many things to many people. For veterans, especially those who fought in war together, it carries a weight that is difficult to explain to anyone who hasn’t lived it.
These are the men we lose as a Battalion in Ramadi 2004. Nothing compares to the loss carried by families who lost sons, daughters, husbands, wives, fathers, and mothers. That loss is immeasurable, permanent, and sacred.
But there is another weight carried quietly by the brothers and sisters who fought beside them. The people who relied on them, laughed with them, suffered with them, and loved them.
We carry memories of who they were before the war. We remember the jokes, the stupidity, the exhaustion, the fear, and the moments where we were all just young and trying to survive together. And when they do not come home, part of us always wonders if we could have done more. If we had been faster, smarter, more alert, more aggressive, maybe things would have ended differently.
That burden never fully leaves.
Often Memorial Day focuses only on those who died overseas in combat, and they absolutely deserve every honor we can give them. But many of us have continued losing brothers long after the deployments ended. Some came home carrying wounds that could be seen. Others carried wounds nobody could see at all. Physical injuries, traumatic brain injuries, cancer, addiction, moral injury, depression, and the invisible weight of war have taken far too many.
There are names and stories we wish we could still share on this podcast. Marines and corpsmen we hoped to interview someday. Men whose stories deserved to be preserved in their own words. But they are gone now. Some to su***de. Some to illness. Some to the kind of recklessness and self-destruction that often follows years of carrying things nobody was meant to carry alone.
At this point, the list has honestly grown too long to name completely.
So this Memorial Day, we remember all of them. The ones who fell in combat, and the ones we lost afterward because the war never truly ended for them.
And to my fellow veterans still reading this: thank you for staying in the fight. Thank you for continuing forward even on the days it feels heavy. Thank you for carrying the memories of the people we loved and lost.
Semper Fi.