08/11/2026
Truth About Trauma: “They’re just seeking attention.”
Sometimes… they are.
But what if instead of stopping there, we asked why they need our attention?
For a child who has experienced abuse, trauma, or neglect, seeking attention may be their way of looking for connection, reassurance, safety, or help. They may not know how to say, “I’m struggling,” “I need you,” or “I don’t know what to do with what I’m feeling.”
So sometimes, it comes out through their behavior.
As we wrap up our Truth About Trauma series, we hope you’ve learned a little more about how trauma can affect a child’s behavior and why understanding where that behavior is coming from matters.
That doesn’t mean ignoring inappropriate behavior or removing boundaries. Kids still need expectations, structure, and accountability. But they also need adults who are willing to look beyond the behavior and help them work through what’s behind it.
Healing takes time. It takes patience. And perhaps most importantly, it takes consistency.
At Open Arms, we have the privilege of walking alongside kids as they learn that the adults in their lives can be safe, dependable, and there for them day after day. 💜
