06/02/2025
I don't know why i can't get over this right now. Maybe its because I put all that am and all that i could and still someone would choose to hurt me in this manner.
I think the world needs to know about people like this and i would be doing the world a huge disservice if I didn't expose people like this and hold them account for the deeds they do... So I give you...
"Tell me lies, Tell me sweet Little Lies"
Martin,
I have said this to you before. I meant it then, as I do now. This will be the last time you hear from me. This will be the last time these lips speak your name. Not everything I am about to say will be negative, although it is the truth, nevertheless, it is not all bad. As a matter of fact, this book was created because of you, so I thank you. That is why I am choosing to dedicate it to you. Now, do not get too excited because now we are going to get down to the nitty gritty, the meat, bones, TRUTHS, if you will.
Did you pay attention to the title? Have you ever wondered how I came up with such an ominous statement? The truth is that You, YES YOU are a cautionary tale. It was probably one of the worst ever told. I met you for a reason, and this is why. I have encountered all sorts of human beings. From those you would fight hell to protect to those that simply belong to hell. However, until I met you, I had never encountered pure, unadulterated evil. My mom was dead on the money when she pegged you. Damn, that woman’s good! I did not want to see it, because 1st of all, I hate saying, “Mom, you were right”. Her head swells up and she does this little dance all while saying, “told ya so, told ya so.’ It’s annoying, and she sings off key, the dance is weird, you get the point. However, I had to own it this time.
For four and a half years, you lied, manipulated, played games, gave me bu****it, toyed with my emotions, strung me along, gaslighted, betrayed, deceived, berated, spread false rumors, and finally discarded me like I never even existed. Then, you simply walked away. Like a goddamn fart in the wind. I struggled with the whole concept of “just letting it go” and I’m so sick of everyone saying “Karma, Karma will get him” F**K THAT! Karma can sit down, kick rocks, and shut the f**k up; I am taking the lead on this one.
Per our last conversation you stated, “Smith, as you requested, I have adjusted my schedule to accommodate the collection of the remaining personal effects by tomorrow, Friday, May 23rd.” However, normal people do not usually speak like this. You don’t sound intelligent, you’re not intimidating, it’s just pretentious and stupid. Moving right along you continue, “I will be available from 10:00 a.m. and can be at your residence around 10:30/11:00 a.m. to collect the remaining items.” Again, with syntax. I noticed, through the years we were together, you would do this little dog and pony show too, I guess, show that you were better or more educated than I? OR was this done to show dominance? Oh, bless your hollow little heart. Child Please! I responded by stating that I would box everything up and leave it at the reception desk; that way, we would never have to see each other again. Then here you go,
“Smith,
Please, enough with the theatrics. You were calling me a coward earlier and now you’re the one acting cowardly by not wanting to to be a man and actually you know face me or whatever seriously why are you torturing (We’ll get back to this word shortly) yourself?”
Interesting. Let’s get right to it. I believe I stated what seeing you face-to-face would accomplish: absolutely nothing. I am not sure how I was torturing myself, and I reiterated the fact that you were indeed a coward, a liar, a thief, and a cheat, but more importantly, a liar.
Once again, here you go,
Smith, it seems that your (should be you’re) projecting yet again onto me. I am not a liar. I am not a thief or a cheat or any other label you wish to place on me. I know who I am. I know my value and what I can bring. Can the same be said about you. (Was that a statement of fact or a question? If question, the sentence should have been punctuated with a question mark [?]) As I stated before, Intelligent, CHILD PLEASE! And then you ramble along about “someone wanting to be different and change the status quo” and somehow being disappointing?” I have absolutely no idea where the hell that came from or what the hell you were talking about or referring to. That entire statement made absolutely no sense. Did you just run out of logical talking points? Where you drunk? BUT, since you want to bring up disappointing, lets expand on that for a minute and make a list.
DISAPPOINTING IS:
1. HOW YOUR FAMILY FEELS ABOUT YOU
2. HOW YOUR FAMILY FEELS ABOUT YOUR “MARRIAGE”
3. HOW YOUR FATHER FEELS ABOUT HIS 1ST BORN (Maybe that’s why your father put Tommy as executor of his estate, because he couldn’t trust you with his money)
4. HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF, YOUR LIFE’S CHOICES, YOUR “DECISION MAKING” SKILLS
5. HOW I FEEL ABOUT YOU AND THE WAY YOU CHOSE TO HANDLE THIS
6. HOW YOUR BROTHER FEELS ABOUT YOU AND THE CHOSES YOU’VE MADE
Thankfully they have Tommy, because if they didn’t, they would really be screwed.
You may want to grab a pen and paper for the next part.
What does it mean when someone says "You're projecting"?
They are either a professional in the field of psychology/ psychiatry, a student in the field, or a consumer of services. individual you are referring to has learned about of the core techniques people use as a “defense mechanisms”. “Projection” as used in the psychology/psychiatry field has nothing to do with— the guy working up in the rafters at the movie theater; nor as a technique for artists/actors/speakers to better speak to an audience and be clearly heard by all in attendance.
“Projection” in a “nutshell”, is a manipulative game played by another person (who is usually jealous of you and your accomplishments), “alleges” that you have committed an act, (usually quite negative) which perversely, is the very act they are committing!
They are not trustworthy, yet often seen as “friendly” in public, have loyal “friends” (believers), but are frequently bullies who control and abuse their family members. The actual truth about their moral failings (Never!) can’t be true! So here is where they've found a way to feel “less guilty”, or “not guilty”. They decide to fabricate a false narrative, which is stated as “fact”, probably about you, or “someone else”. Look. It's an utter lie. They are simply inserting your name/their nemesis where their name belongs.
They have often criminally figured out a way to wriggle out of responsibility for minor bad acts (taking credit for a project you completed at work); or major, reprehensible behavior, such as allegations of “neglect of a shared elderly parent”, either emotionally, financially, and physically.
So why? Often the “Projector” had low self-esteem as a kid; they didn't achieve as much as others in school; they were less attractive, and their pitiful insecurity goes on into their senior years.
They lie easily, and do so to employers, public authorities, friends you once shared, and their family-about you, and actively work to discredit a good person and diminish your greater accomplishments: they must bring you down, to lift themselves up to the “Superior” position. The great, perfect guy, and supporter of all community charities, oh my! When they go in a restroom and look in the mirror, they frequently look down at their shoes. They know what splitting and triangulation they've stirred up. They hate themselves. They age, start losing support, and will literally find themselves alone. Those they humiliated, degraded and alienated will abandon them, ceasing all contact.
She later goes on to state, “Either you work closely with them; are related to them; were a friend; neighbor, and have contact with the same third party, who they are “gaslighting” (elaborately manipulating to believe their false, negative false tales) to direct attention away from them and onto a “scapegoat”, who is typically a decent, honest person, who is truthful and what they see as a weakness- kind.” (Malmberg 1-39)
Sound Familiar? Of course, you’re probably shaking your head “No” even though you know this is the spitting image of you. But I’m pretty sure you’re accustomed to not only lying to everyone that you meet, but you’ve also mastered lying to yourself, BRAVO!
Friday comes, I was up by 8:30, boxing up your things. I clean the apartment and Before I knew it, Its 11:05. No texts from Martin. No notification that someone needs to be let into the building. No phone call, and the excuse about me blocking your number does not apply in this case. In fact, I unblocked your number several weeks ago at the expectation that you would make arrangements to get your things. You have been so vocal around town stating how you were going to sue, and I need to hand over your things, that I was trying to take your “company” away from you, BLAH, BLAH, BLAH!
Fact of matter, guess who never showed, and never bothered to texts. YEP! THAT’S YOU. So, what was that about not wanting to to be a man and actually you know face me or whatever and not being a coward??? YEP!
Next, You, and this really cracks me up, you stated that you’re not a liar and a thief. Ok, let’s break it down:
1. Lied to U.S. Government to obtain a Green Card
2. Lied about being married
3. Lied about your brother hating you, when it was actually vice versa
4. Lied about the insurance fraud claims when you worked for Olympus Law Group
5. Lied to Ron about why he was never allowed in your apartment, that he was paying your rent for, while living at Vantage Pointe
6. Lied to Ron about where you were traveling
7. Lied to Ron on several occasions (and currently still is) to obtain money for drugs and other unnecessary purchases from various high-end retail locations
8. Lied to the police every time you filed a restraining order on me (No charges were ever filed due to lack of creditable evidence)
9. Lied every time you stated you were coming over and didn’t and wouldn’t call because, “you crashed hard”
10. Lied about how you crashed RON’s car, not yours but Ron’s car (You don’t even have a driver’s license. At least, not a US one)
11. Lied about successfully running a business. You meant successfully running it into the ground
12. Lied to the IRS that why your ass got audited to the tune of over $3,000,000
13. Lied about not being HIV POSITIVE
14. Lied about not having another STD
15. Lied when stated I had a profile on Rent Men
16. Lied about being sexually assaulted by Grant Hackett on a Virgin Atlantic Flight from Adelaide to Melbourne in mid-April 2017 as he was returning from the Olympic swimming trials in Adelaide. The passenger (That’s you Martin) claimed Hackett reached through the gap between seats, grabbed his chest and tweaked his ni**le in what he described as a “sexual assault”.
Asked if he had touched the passenger’s chest, Hackett said: “From my perspective, no. I can’t vouch for the person who is sitting ahead of me but everyone (Meaning the rest of the passengers) sitting around me has stated the same thing. You almost ruined a man’s life because of this lie. Side note: You would be so lucky if ANYONE touched ANYTHING on your thick ass. Did you eat the entire 1st class? You later admitted to me that you were just trying to get money from this guy.
17. Lied and stated that I sexually assaulted you in San Francisco
18. Lied about not having another boyfriend in San Francisco
19. Lied about establishing a residence at 5209 Fulton Street, Phoenix, AZ
20. Lied about being verbally assaulted on April 10, 2025, in which you used dark make-up to imitate the appearance of a black eye and bruises which enabled you to file yet another TRO (Temporary Restraining Order) against me.
21. Lied to his mother over the phone to get money for drugs
22. Lied about me asking him for money
23. Lied about how I ask him to pay my bills
24. Lied to me about being a part of your business and stating to several people I had nothing to do with any of his business endeavors. (Who was it that came up with the branding, marketing strategies, financial forecast planning Logo Conceptualization and Implementation, website design layout, Vision/Mood Board for BFG, business plan for BFG, Email marketing campaigns. Who devoted countless hours of research, development and design. Who scoured the web for other wholesale manufacturers. Who called various website design companies looking for someone who could build a website at a reasonable price. Yes, IT WAS SMITH)
25. Lied about having the money for the website when the reality was that you had spent it.
26. Lied about having to go to Phoenix AZ for GHB
27. Lied in NYC during the holidays when he stated that once again, he was going out to get some GHB and upon returning had nothing.
28. Lied to officials about being sexually abused while attending boarding school. (Another scam to get rich quick just to be like Daddy.
29. Lied to me about your past in Australia and the real reason you’re afraid to go back and the reason why none of your so-called “Friends” never call you. Not once.
30. LIED about coming to get the rest of your belongings on Friday May 23rd
31. Lied to me every time you said “I love you” “I will always be there for you”
32. Lied to several individuals in the community that I held you hostage and tortured you. (You researched ways to fast-track your path towards U.S. Citizenship and discovered a way to claim abuse by a partner or spouse and if found substantial would be a quicker way to obtain citizenship, rather than doing it the traditional, legal way.
33. Stole my computer, wallets, Identification, keys during an argument. You left a note stating that if I ever wanted to see my property again, I needed to call you. YOU, yes you Martin was later arrested and taken into custody for Domestic Violence. Great Day! Too bad I wasn’t there to see you in handcuffs.
34. Stole money from a German Flight Attendant for the purchase of drugs
35. Stole over $10,000 worth of merchandise from his previous employers RODD & GUNN Which was in Century City.
36. Stole money from Rons Wallet on several Occasions
37. Attempted to steal money from one of my debit cards.
38. In an attempt to either prevent an associate of mine from testifying on my behalf at the last court hearing scheduled for April 28, 2025. Mr. Slobodnik, at the very least made it appear as though he was being robbed so that the employees would alert the police and have my associate arrested. Or, at the most, attempted to seriously incapacitated and/or kill. You lured this Associate to an adult bookstore, drugged him, left him unconscious, unresponsive in the theater. Running out wearing nothing but your underwear even ditching your shoes. The associate came to surrounded by EMS and police. Once he regained consciousness, he realized that You (Yes, you Martin) had STOLE not only his clothes, but his shoes, cell phone, Identification, wallet, keys, computer, tablet and medication. When confronted you (Martin) refused to answer his calls and when he actually went to your (Martin’s) house to see about getting his property back, you( Martin) hid behind the door, while his husband Ron covered for him and went out to the garage, grabbed his belongings, and proceeded to Lie about being in possession of his property. Ron, along with you (Martin) called the police and as of today, that associate has yet to get his belongings back.
So, I think we can safely say that you, (Yes you Martin) not being a LIAR and/or thief is a LIE! There’s an old saying, I think it goes “If you wanna know when Martin is Lying...His lips are moving”
As far as a cheat, this one’s too easy. You cheated on Ron with me. The entire time we were dating, as a matter of fact, even before you married Ron back in June of 2022. You also tried to cheat your insurance clients with your questionable business practices and with your tax returns hence your current situation with the IRS now. And before you start shouting from the mountain tops about suing me for deformation yada, yada, yada, you may want to re-visit that statute.
Did I miss anything? I’m pretty sure I did, but everything listed so far, are things I can prove, Easily!
Moving right along, you state, and I quote “I know who I am. I know my value and what I can bring.”
News Flash genius, anyone that truly knows themselves, their value and what they bring to the table, never has to say that they know who they are, or what they are worth, or what they can bring to any table. You want to know why? Because they own that table. Which is a helleva lot more than what you have. In fact, the only significant thing that has ever happened to you was being a stain on your mama’s mattress.
You see, I have my own place, I live alone, buy my food, pay my own bills. I have my own car. It may not be in the best shape, but I do have one. And the best thing about that, I didn’t have to lay on my back or be on my knees to get any of it. Can you say the same? I think we all know the answer to that one. FYI, I got my security deposit back. Not only that, but they added an extra $25. So, rent is paid, all my bills are paid up, got a new phone with a new number. The old number is still working. I don’t have to worry about you contacting me though. You’re not man enough to call, you’re not even man enough to come and get the rest of your things because that means you would have to look me in my face and explain why you did, what you did. Call me crazy, but you don’t have the balls. Never have and damn sure never will! Everywhere you go, there’s always some drama and chaos that inevitably will follow. You start these things, but just like a scared little boy running back to their mama’s with their tails between their legs. You’ll take off leaving a trail of destruction and confusion in your wake. Not taking and especially accepting any responsibility for your own actions. You’re always the victim. Everyone has always treated you with disdain and disrespected you...You hear that? That sound is the world’s tiniest violin playing. When will you stop being the victim? It can’t be everyone’s fault, all the damn time. So, it wasn’t the airline that screwed up your flight, that was YOU. The reason why Titan failed wasn’t because of Ron, it was YOU. The reason why Bespoke never went anywhere wasn’t because of me, IT WAS YOU! Your so hell bent on proving to your father that you can be somebody. But you just don’t have what it takes kid. Your father worked to get what he has; you don’t know the meaning of the word. You’ve had everything handed to you on a silver platter. You give the appearance of the confidant, young successful businessman. Flashing money around buying everyone at the bar drinks. Just like the time when you were in Dallas, got drunk at brunch and ran up a tab of over $800. Remember that? You flew me out, and I proposed to you at the Virgin Hotel. I almost forgot:
LIED about the bartender drugging you at the bar during drag brunch and charging your (RON’s) AMEX over $800. Did you really think that I was that damn stupid to believe that bu****it?
You lied to me from day 1. At 1st, I thought it was cute. How you thought you were getting over on me. Then it just became down-right insulting and sickening how you thought so little of me.
Truth be told, I’m more upset with myself than I am with you, because I allowed this thing (Yes, you Martin) to invade my space. To insidiously inject themselves into my life, foregoing everything that I had ever said about ground rules and deal breakers when it comes to a relationship because I wanted it, us to work. But there never was an “US”.
Four and a half years, and as you so eloquently put it, I was nothing more than just another BIG BLACK DICK to you. Just something to objectify, use and finally abuse. You said that. Your bigotry is profound. For someone who obviously HATES black people, you sure do hide your contempt extremely well. I guess that goes back to the point I made about you mastering the art of lying to yourself. But your lies are catching up to you. More people are starting to catch on. Maybe that’s why you’re afraid to show your face on social media like BBRT, NKP, SNIFFIES. Or maybe it’s because you realized that people are finally seeing how truly ugly you really are. You’re nothing more than a sad, fat kid with bad acne.
Evidently, you weren’t paying attention in class when I was teaching you the lesson on what happens when you disrespect a good man. A good black man. A good, proud black man.
So let me take you back to school.
If you thought, for 1 second that I would just fade away and go quietly into that good night, then you seriously mis-assessed the situation at this table as Ms. Julia Sugabaker would say.
I warned you, that if you Ever disrespected me in the manner that you did, I would make MADEA look like a freaking Care Bear. That is a promise I intend to keep. This is my therapy, warning the public about people like you. So, to the public, consider this as being part of a LOCK OUT, TAG OUT POLICY PROCEDURE.
Mr. MARTIN MATEJ SLOBODNIK has absolutely:
1. NO MORALS
2. NO BALLS, OR GUTS, NO GLORY
3. NO VALUE
4. NO WORTH
5. NO HOME
6. NO CAR
7. NO NOTICABLE DISCERNABLE TALENT (Unless you include shopping and spending other people’s money)
8. NO LOYALTY
9. NO PRINCIPLES
10. NO CHARACTER
11. NO DECENCY
12. NO RESPECT FOR HIMSELF OR OTHERS
13. NO MONEY (Unless you include the money that comes from his delusional, desperate husband)
14. NO BUSINESS
15. NO ETHICS
16. NO BRAWN
17. NO BRAIN
18. NO DIGNITY
19. NO EMPATHY
20. NO SYMPATHY
21. NO SELF-RESPECT
22. NO HUMANITY
23. NO SOUL
24. NO HEART
25. NO FUTURE
26. NO RESPECT
27. NO HOPE
28. NO FUTURE
LAST, BUT CERTAINLY NOT LEAST
NO LOVE FOR ANYTHING OR ANYONE BUT HIMSELF! And guess what, you don't even have that. Because maybe, if you learns to love
yourself, you wouldn’t be this angry, hollowed-out, decrepit, deceitful, pathetic, lying shell of what used to be- perhaps a very, very long time ago-a half-way decent human being. Instead, we are left with something less than human, made from the spare parts of other LESSER human beings.
He will look at you square in the face and lie. He will even tell you lies that you didn’t ask for, or would have ever asked for. He will manipulate and gaslight you into thinking a situation is your fault. He will make you doubt yourself even when you know you’re right.
I’m not just saying this because things didn’t work out. I’m saying this because goddamnit, someone has to. He’s been doing this for years and has mastered the art of manipulation...To some degree because let’s face it, he isn’t the brightest bulb in the box. And he’s only as strong as you make him. He needs to feed off souls. Good souls. Don’t be that soul. He is broken beyond all repairs. Not even duct tape, gorilla glue, and 12 Hail Mary’s could fix him. So, as Prince would say, “When you call up that shrink in Beverly hills, you know the one, Doctor “Everything will be alright” Don’t say, you weren’t warned about the hidden dangers of the world. Don’t say, you just didn’t know about Martin Matej Slobodnik because if you didn’t know, now you know. And, now that I know, the only thing that I can say is, F**K YOU! F**k you for making me believe that you were a man of your word. F**k me for putting my trust in something and someone that I knew deep down had no chance of survival. F**k you for making me feel wanted, special, and loved when you were just playing a game. (You can’t blame a snake for being a snake). F**k you for tricking me into letting my guard down and foregoing Everything, that I had ever said would be deal-breakers in a relationship, and Everyone who I didn’t listen to when they warned me about you.
If there’s one thing that can give me peace in all this, it’s resting comfortably in the fact that I will trust and love again. It’s gonna take a long time, but I will. I will be happy, and I will be loved. What saddens me is this, Will you be able to say the same?
This has been your public service announcement for May 26, 2025
