06/24/2026
"A lot of boys aren’t being limited by ability.
They’re being limited by how quickly someone steps in and removes the difficulty for them.
It’s subtle and usually comes from good intentions.
But over time, it sends a message: “you don’t have to push through this.”
Raising expectations doesn’t always mean adding more. Sometimes it just means letting them carry it a little longer than you normally would.
Where do you think that shows up most at home?"