06/11/2026
A few reflections on Elder Abuse Awareness Day
Sheriff Frank Leonbruno
Here in the United States, we pause to think on Elder Abuse Awareness Day to consider how older people in our Country are physically abused, s*xually abused and financially abused. And we should pause to think about such crimes for it is unthinkable that our elders are subjected to such abuses. In fact, I believe we all should implore our legislators to double or triple the penalties for such crimes against seniors.
But today I want to take a moment to reflect with you on the abuse that goes on everyday around us in our Country … failing to honor our elders and storing them away to be forgotten where they are neglected in spirit and heart.
Anthropologist Jared Diamond, who has studied the treatment of the elderly across cultures, has said that the elderly in England and the United States live "lonely lives separated from their children and lifelong friends. Rather than honor them, we view the elderly as major inconveniences to our busy lives. We see them as slow, invalids who cause us to spend too much time in doctor’s waiting rooms, who tell boring stories about their lives from long ago and simply seem to take up space.
What we fail to do everyday in our Country, which is just as criminal as physical, s*xual and financial abuse, is we fail to honor our seniors and see them as great treasures of historical knowledge, and show them great gratitude for the leadership and love they had for us to shape the world and new realities we enjoy today.
Native American cultures, across hundreds of distinct nations, show immense respect to their elders not just for their age, but because they hold the history, survival knowledge, and spiritual traditions of the tribe. They act as vital mentors who bind the community together.
In the Orient, built upon Confucian ideals, these societies operate on the concept of filial piety. Deference to older individuals, caring for them in the home, and honoring deceased ancestors through rituals that are deeply ingrained in cultural obligations. Younger members of the family have a duty to care for the aging members of the family.
In Greece’s monasteries abbots are addressed by everyone as 'Geronda,' which means 'old man.' Abbesses are called 'Gerondissa.' Not exactly terms of endearment here in the US. But there the idea of honoring old age, indeed identifying it with wisdom and closeness to God, is in startling contrast to the way we treat aging in America."
Today I call on each of us to commit ourselves to honoring the elderly in our homes and throughout our communities. As we encounter them on our own journeys in life let us pause to thank them for their journey and what it has meant to our lives and our futures. Spend time asking them to share their life, their journey and ask them to offer us their words of wisdom as we move forward in our lives. And if they cannot speak or move, let us spend time, precious time holding their hand and letting them know we care and they are precious to us.
Sheriff Frank Leonbruno