Harper Therapy, Lutz, FL.

09/11/2026

Friday Funny!

09/09/2026

You keep replaying everything in your head… how did you get here?? You never thought you’d be the kind of person to cheat on your partner. Who is this person you’ve become?

OR, you’re playing through all of your partner’s mis-deeds, thinking you have every right to pursue a different type of relationship – one that makes you happy.

You’ve decided to end the affair and do whatever it takes to make your marriage work.

OR.

You’re still involved with your affair partner and not sure about your marriage.

We understand that there are a lot of reasons that affairs happen. And we bring this understanding into our affair recovery work with couples.

Here’s the skinny of what you need to know...

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https://www.harpertherapy.com/blog/what-the-involved-partner-needs-to-know?rq=What%20the%20Involved%20Partner%20Needs%20to%20Know

09/08/2026

Hello, Friends!
Time for Toby+Hobbes Tuesday, a chance for us to check in for ourselves on our self-care and play practices. These boys are a good reminder for me to rest when I need to, and of the importance of playfulness in my life (in fact, having them around makes me more playful)!
What is your favorite self care or play practice for the week??

09/07/2026

Permission to Dream

For most of us, the waters we swim in choke out our capacity to dream. While we do fine with identifying big life goals – where to go to school, our desired profession, how to climb the ladder of success, even goals to partner and have children (or not) are not hard to put on our to-do list. We of...

09/02/2026

Reconnect. Rebuild. Rediscover – Together.

Are you and your partner caught in the same arguments, struggling to connect, or just feeling... stuck?

The Relationship Bootcamp: The Essential Skills Workshop is back, offering a powerful, two-day experience designed to help couples and individuals break toxic patterns, improve communication, and rebuild emotional connection.

Whether you're navigating emotional disconnection and constant miscommunication or just want to deepen the trust and intimacy in your relationship, this is your opportunity to make a real shift.

Early Bird Registration is now open – but only for a limited time!

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Call Harper Therapy Today at 813-434-3639!

https://www.harpertherapy.com/blog/-transform-your-relationship-save-now-with-early-bird-pricing-on-our-relationship-bootcamp?rq=Transform%20Your%20Relationship%20%E2%80%93%20Save%20Now%20with%20Early%20Bird%20Pricing

08/31/2026

Marriage 2.0

You and your partner have rolled up your sleeves and done the hard work of affair recovery. It has been brutal and beautiful. There have been tears and anger and tender moments of connection that you didn’t think possible.

08/26/2026

Shamon and I recently had the opportunity to attend a Kintsugi workshop. Kintsugi is an ancient Japanese art of putting broken pieces of pottery back together with gold. Surprisingly, the put-back-together piece ends up being stronger than the original piece. This is a metaphor that I use often with couples who come in for affair recovery, so I was eager to actually EXPERIENCE it.

Let’s just say that it’s not what I thought it would be.

Granted, the true process of Kintsugi is not smashing a ceramic bowl with a hammer and then using super glue and gold paint to put it back together again that we used in the workshop. As other workshop participants gently tapped their bowls multiple times in an attempt to break it, I only needed one solid WHACK before I saw the towel that my bowl was wrapped in deflate as the pieces crumbled. I quickly started to wonder how in the world I would fit the pieces back together again....

Read more from the link below!

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https://www.harpertherapy.com/blog/putting-the-broken-pieces-back-together?rq=Putting%20the%20broken%20pieces