03/30/2026
Back in Jewish times when a man wanted to marry a woman he and his father would travel to the girl’s house and sit down with her and her father and they would start negotiating the price for the bride. If they agreed the father would hand the son a cup of wine and the son would look at the girl and offer the cup to her and say, “I offer you this cup, what he is saying is I love you and I give you my life will you marry me”. She now has the chorus to say yes or no. If she says yes and drinks it she’s saying, “I accept your life and I love you I give you mine as well”. So, when Jesus holds the cup up and says, “This is the cup of the new covenant in my blood which is poured out for you”, When he drank of it, he’s saying I love you all, I am giving you my life, will you give me yours as well. As we drink the cup, we say Jesus I accept your life that you laid down for me and I give you mine.
When Jesus was on the cross, he said it is finished I always thought it was because of all the suffering and the pain he endured he could not last any longer. But it is finished is a Greek term (Telestai). In business it meant your debt in paid. In judicial it was your time that had been served. In military it meant the war had been won. When Jesus said it is finished, he was saying your battle is won and all the debt for your sins has been paid.
The custom of that time was a folded cloth that was tied to a relationship between the master and the servant. When the master finished his meal, he would crumble the cloth and toss it onto the table signaling I am finished. But if he left the cloth folded it meant I will return. When Jesus rose from the dead the cloth that covered his face was found neatly folded and carefully placed at the head of his tomb. Jesus was sending a powerful message. He didn’t just rise from the dead, but he also promised to return.