09/14/2026
🇺🇸 Town of Babylon Remembers: Terence McShane
Twenty-five years on, our monthlong tribute continues honoring the 48 residents we lost on September 11, 2001 — members of our community whose spirit, love, and kindness continue to resonate.
Today, we honor the memory of Terence Augustine McShane — a devoted husband, loving father, and courageous public servant who grew up in Deer Park.
Terence served twelve years with the NYPD, rising to sergeant, before joining the FDNY in 1999. On September 11, while serving with Ladder 101 out of Red Hook, Brooklyn, he gave his life in the line of duty at the age of 37. Six of his brothers from Ladder 101 were lost alongside him.
When The New York Times wrote about Terence, they titled it "The Friend Collector." A life so full and so brief, they said, could be measured by his friendships — the ones from Sts. Cyril and Methodius, from St. Anthony's High School, from lifeguarding at Overlook Beach, from Siena College, from rugby, from a decade in a police uniform and two years in a fire helmet.
"Terence was still friendly with guys he went to nursery school with," his older brother Kieran said. He'd run into someone on the street and start talking, and Kieran would ask who that was. "Some girl I went to third grade with," Terence would answer.
What drew people to him may have been how much he could pull out of an ordinary moment. One of his approaches to fatherhood: in-line skating down Montauk Highway, shirtless, pushing a stroller packed with his kids.
That September, Terence and his father-in-law were in the middle of gutting and rebuilding the family's house. Terence, Cathy and their three boys — the oldest was 7 — were staying at a relative's place until it was finished. After September 11, friends, relatives and complete strangers showed up and finished the job for them.
His son Colin now serves as an FDNY firefighter. "He was a man who always put others first," Colin said. "I strive every day to live up to the example he set."
🕯️ We will never forget.