01/14/2026
REMINDER: CELEBRATION OF LIFE THIS SATURDAY, JANUARY 17, 2026.
John Earl Graves, 79, retired Captain of the Jacksonville Fire & Rescue Department, passed peacefully at his Green Cove Springs home on October 8, 2025, with his beloved wife and often-claimed best friend of over 40 years, Jodie, by his side.
Born in Jacksonville, Florida, to Harry C. and Ruby D. Graves, John was the eldest son, predeceased by his brother Harry Jr. and daughter Angela. He leaves behind his devoted wife, Jodie; daughter Christine Rocks; son-in-law Lance Rocks; and cherished grandchildren, Zachary and Ashley; as well as his sister-in-law Janet Graves and her children, Bryan and Erin.
A proud graduate of Ribault High School, John balanced a 33-year career with JFRD—where he felt privileged to serve—with work as an architectural draftsman for Doro Fixture Company. His courage and leadership extended beyond firefighting. A competitive pistol shooter, he represented Jacksonville in numerous victories and served on the board of Gateway Rifle and Pistol Club. As a dedicated member of the Masons, Scottish Rite, and Elks Lodge, John rose to Past Exalted Ruler of Green Cove Springs Elks Lodge #1892, embodying his commitment to charity and community.
John’s early adult hobbies were motocross racing and family boating; he eventually settled into motorcycle cruising, cooking for others, and sailing. John’s bold humor, love for tackling big projects, and devotion to Jodie defined him. Whether canoeing the Amazon, hiking the Eiffel Tower for a romantic kiss, diving 1,000 feet in a research sub, or building an epic riverfront firepit, he was Jodie’s hero, always sharing “Jodie stories” to delight others. As he promised, “You get first dibs in anything I do” and “I will always be the wind beneath your wings.” Jodie held him firm to his promises—together they tackled all life cast in their direction as inseparable equals. John’s legacy of love and adventure endures in his family and community.
A celebration of life will be held at JFRD Union Hall in the afternoon of Jan. 17, 2026. In lieu of flowers, donations to Haven Hospice Foundation, Elks National Foundation, or Drug Free Duval are appreciated.