01/02/2024
Storytime: A few weeks ago, my neighbor asked me if I wouldn't mind sharing my Wi-Fi password. I decided to give it to him because it wouldn't cost me anything extra, and because I got along with him. Yesterday, as I was getting out of the car, the neighbor was at his door, getting ready to come outside. I stopped to talk a bit as he held the door open. He happily told me he now had Netflix. At that, jokingly I said: ′′I work hard, I barely have time to watch TV, but, if you could lend me your password to watch some shows, I would appreciate it ". A voice was heard in the distance, coming from inside the house. It was his wife, ′′We can't give the password to her, because I'm the one who pays the bill and I can't share it."
The man apologized and I said it was no problem. We kept talking about other things, and as I left, he stayed working outside. When I happened to look outside a little while later, I noticed the man's wife come outside. She seemed very nervous and upset. They both went into the house. After a few minutes, he and his wife came to my door to tell me the Wi-Fi password wasn't working anymore. I looked at them and said, ′′ I changed my password, because it's me paying the bill and I can't share it ". The wife turned red and tried to say something, but I said, ′′Ma'am, I have my network and you have your Netflix, everything is fine and everyone is happy". They turned around and left. They never spoke to me again.
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This story isn't mine, but here's the lesson I learned from it:
*Friendships must be mutual!
*Love must be mutual!
*Loyalty must be mutual!
mutual = reciprocal ***
I've been practicing the gift of reciprocity since Jan 2022.
In 2024 I intend to continue because it has granted me clarity in different areas of my life.
Examples? silence with silence,
absences with absences,
affection with affection,
friendship with friendship, and
loyalty with loyalty!
No more one-sided relationships!
Feelings must be mutual!
Praying happiness, health and prosperity during all of 2024 to anyone who reads this. 😁