06/15/2026
Our grief counselor, Meghan Monahan is in the house next on Wednesday July 8th from 11-1pm. No appointment necessary however if you'd like to get more information or to set up an appointment or telehealth appointment you can do so at tinygurl.com/safegrief *Flyer in comments.
Not every loss can be transformed into something useful.
The reality of grief is different from what others see or guess from the outside. Platitudes and pat explanations will not work here.
There is not a reason for everything. Things happen that do not have a silver lining. We have to start telling the truth about this kind of pain. About grief, about love, about loss.
Because the truth is, in one way or another, loving each other means losing each other. Being alive in such a fleeting, tenuous world is hard. Our hearts get broken in ways that canât be fixed.
There is pain that becomes an immovable part of our lives. We need to know how to endure that, how to care for ourselves inside that, how to care for one another.
We need to know how to live here, where life as we know it can change, forever, at any time. We need to start talking about that reality of life, which is also the reality of love.
Your survival in this life post-loss wonât follow steps or stages, or align with anyone elseâs vision of what life might be for you. Survival wonât be found, canât be found, in easy answers or in putting your lost life behind you, pretending you didnât really want it anyway.
In order to survive, to find that life that feels authentic and true to you, we have to start with telling the truth. This really is as bad as you think. Everything really is as wrong, and as bizarre, as you know it to be.
When we start there, we can begin to talk about living with grief, living inside the love that remains.