02/06/2026
My son and I had a truly special Memorial Day this year as we travelled to Arlington National Cemetery for the services at the amphitheater in the cemetery. If you have never been to Arlington, it is a humbling and inspiring site with Lee’s mansion still well preserved, the JFK Eternal Flame, the USS Maine Memorial and of course the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier as well as over 470 thousand markers of the brave men and women who gave so much, often their lives to preserve our freedom. I have been blessed to have visited Arlington several times before, witnessed the wreath presenting services at the Tomb (once co-presented by our elder son), but this time was equally special as we heard speeches including remarks from vice-president Vance and president Trump from a distance barely more than 50 feet.
As great as they were, the speeches of Vance and Trump were actually not the most memorable, as the most powerful remarks were delivered by Gold Star parents who lost their only son 10 years earlier describing the pain and loss from such a forever life changing event while their daughters and widowed daughter-in-law stood in the foreground. Despite their loss, they did not regret their brave son’s choices and actions but instead gained a much deeper understanding of the price of freedom than any of us non-Gold Star folks will ever understand. The mother shared not only her consolation that she knows through her faith that she will hold her son again, and that she has no fear that we will lose our freedom to external forces, but does fear we will lose it from within. She didn’t name political parties, individuals or even use the word socialism but her meaning was unmistakable.
A third inspiring speech was from a Vietnam War, Medal of Honor recipient who served as a medic saving 10 lives while under horrific enemy fire. He described how he never stopped thinking of those men and how surprised he was when so many years later he was awarded the Medal of Honor from president Trump. He was however, most surprised recently by a call from a young man he had never met – the grandson of one of those he saved who had just become a young father himself who delivered a heart-felt personal thank you.
The challenge before us all, every day is to not take our God-given and hero protected freedom for granted.
The link below has Trump’s speech.