Ground Rules
“Try On.” Be open-minded to others’ ideas and feelings, even when they are very different from your own. While we have many similarities, it’s okay to acknowledge our different perspectives. Learn to respond to others with honest, open answers instead of counsel, corrections or attack. Make your conversation goal to listen and share, not to change people’s minds. Our views of realit
y may differ. Use “I” statements (I think, I feel, I believe), trusting others to do their own sifting. Practice “both/and” thinking. This invites us to see that more than one reality or perspective can be true at the same time, rather than “either/or”, right or wrong, good or bad.