11/28/2016
This story has been sticking with me for a while. A Syrian refugee who is a master tailor saves a wedding. Great story on its own. But I think that what’s been persisting is a need to unpack the story just a bit.
Good things just don’t happen. Conversely, bad things don’t just happen either. I’m talking about those events that we have control over – not the disasters, hurricanes, or accidents etc. I think we can carve out a category of good and bad that are instigated by humans.
The redeeming story of the master tailor from Syria is a good example. Lots had to happen for Halil Dudu to save the day. And that’s what has stuck with me – this notion that we need to be out in the world creating the platform for good to happen.
Canada had to have a policy in place for resettling refugees. They had to implement a program that provided safety and sanctuary to the victims of the horrific events in Syria. And they had to have a program that created the opportunity for David Hobson to be able to take Halil and his family into his home. Proactive efforts of goodness that led to the opportunity for Halil to save the day.
I think we overlook those efforts that bring goodness into the world. And I think we pay less attention than we should to how we as individuals and organizations and government can create the opportunities for goodness to happen. We are too focused on being against and not focused enough on what we can do to proactively bring goodness about.
It’s complicated, I know. Lots of holes can be punched into this notion of promoting goodness. But I think we can benefit from suspending our overly critical/negative mind and thinking about a world where we are all looking for ways to interact positively in our world so that goodness can happen. That’s not as complicated as it seems.
Volunteer at a soup kitchen and get to know the stories of the patrons. Bring someone home for a meal. Attend one of the many cultural events around the holidays and meet our new neighbors. Bring a family home to share in one of your holiday traditions. It’s as simple as letting someone into the lane in front of you. Get to know a DACA dreamer and then take time to see how the Executive Order creates an opportunity for good things to happen. Look for the opportunity to create something positive as you move through the day. From big to small, these are the interactions in our universe that begin to tip the balance.
Stories of a refugee from Aleppo saving the day won’t be so surprising. We’ll be equally pleased and redeemed but less surprised because we’ve been out there doing those kinds of things that are precursors to making just that kind of goodness in the world happen.
http://www.ctvnews.ca/canada/syrian-tailor-living-in-canada-for-just-4-days-saves-wedding-1.3091569
When the zipper on Jo Du’s wedding dress broke just hours before her ceremony, a sense of panic set it. But, as luck would have it, a Syrian refugee who worked as a tailor in Aleppo for 28 years had moved next-door with his family four days earlier.