06/01/2026
People say, “I could never foster because I’d get too attached.”
But what if getting attached isn’t the problem?
Children need people who show up, who care deeply, who cheer them on, who make them feel safe enough to belong. They need connection. They need attachment.
The goal of foster care is reunification, and when that happens, saying goodbye can be hard. But the answer isn’t to love less. It’s to love anyway.
Every child deserves adults who are willing to risk having their hearts broken if it means a child gets to experience stability, safety, and genuine care while they need it most.
So yes, get attached.
That might be exactly what a child needs.