11/27/2023
Civic Meditation 112723: When Did You Fall in Love with Democracy?
I love movies. I mean, I LOVE movies. I could spend an entire day, an entire weekend, watching nothing but movies. I enjoy many genres of movies/cinema, but one of my top genres is Romantic Comedy. One of my favorite romantic comedies is a movie called “Brown Sugar”, directed by Rick Fukiyama, starring Sanaa Lathan & Taye Diggs. It chronicles a music writer/editor (Lathan) as she navigates the evolution of her life along with the evolution of hip hop. In it, she starts each interview with the question, “So when did you fall in love with Hip-Hop?”
This made me think about this question, but instead of Hip-Hop, in relation to democracy. Democracy is hard work, damn hard work. It requires vigilance, awareness, education, cooperation, collaboration, compromise and constant effort from citizens, administrators, and elected officials, for it to work. All of this is required, while in competition with everything else that life requires from us and all that we require from life. I dare you to consider anything else in your life that asks SO much from you, that you willingly give SO much to, that you don’t also love. You’ll be hard pressed to do it, I promise.
That said, as someone who practices being an example of what I want to see in the world, I’ll answer this question first. I first fell in love with democracy in 1992. I the Spring of that year, my mother, a civic leader who always kept tabs on political goings on, told me about this person running for the Democratic Party nomination for President who I’d never heard off at the time, named Bill Clinton. She thought he had quite a bit to offer as a candidate, but feared he didn’t stand a chance because he was a relatively unknown governor of Arkansas, a small southern state without much to offer electorally. As months went by, Governor Clinton continued to confound expectation and eventually won the Democratic nomination, facing incumbent President George H.W. Bush and eccentric billionaire turned independent candidate Ross Perot in the general election.
In the final week of the campaign, Governor Clinton travelled all over the country, even making a campaign rally stop at a small airport in Fort Worth TX, near my hometown of Arlington. My mother took me to that rally, which was supposed to happen around 8 pm but didn’t end up starting until closer to midnight. I don’t remember what he said, but I remember it was cold, windy and standing in the midst of those people, I’d never felt so seen, so heard, and so united with people who I didn’t know. I knew then and there that I wanted to be a part of bringing people together like Bill Clinton did that night, and the way I wanted to do that was through democracy. There are few things outside of religion that has the power to bring such diverse collections of people together like democracy and that's why I love it.
So...when did you fall in love with democracy?