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After Day 7.Almost forty days later, we find ourselves looking back at these moments with a different kind of understand...
27/03/2026

After Day 7.

Almost forty days later, we find ourselves looking back at these moments with a different kind of understanding.

What once felt like unbearable pain now carries pieces of comfort found in the stories, the laughter, the presence of everyone who stood with us through those seven days.

Grief doesn’t end. It changes. It softens. It teaches you to carry love in a new way.

Thank you to everyone who prayed with us, sat with us, cried with us, and remembered Dad with us. You have no idea how much those moments meant and still mean.

And to Dad—
we carry you with us in everything we do, in the way we love, in the way we show up for others.

This isn’t the end of remembering you.
It’s just the beginning of learning how to live with your memory.

-Lovelyne, Cheryl, AJ 🙏

Day 7.The hardest goodbye.No words ever feel enough for a moment like this. Just a quiet surrender to something we canno...
27/03/2026

Day 7.

The hardest goodbye.

No words ever feel enough for a moment like this. Just a quiet surrender to something we cannot change.

But even in the pain, there was so much love carried in every step of the procession, every prayer whispered, every person who stood with us until the very end.

We laid Dad to rest, but not without bringing with us everything he was—his quiet strength, his generosity, and the love he gave so freely.

He lives on in all of it. In all of us.

Day 6.By the sixth day, the weight of what was coming could already be felt.Our family moved through each moment more qu...
27/03/2026

Day 6.

By the sixth day, the weight of what was coming could already be felt.

Our family moved through each moment more quietly, more carefully, as if trying to hold on just a little longer. Every prayer, every visit, every embrace carried a deeper meaning.

There was a silent understanding in the room: that the next day would mark a turning point.

And while people continued to show up with love and presence, there was also a growing heaviness… the kind that comes before everything changes.

Day 5.Listening to the testimonies, we realized how much of our Dad lives on in all of us.The way he gave, the way he sh...
27/03/2026

Day 5.

Listening to the testimonies, we realized how much of our Dad lives on in all of us.

The way he gave, the way he showed up, the way he quietly cared—those weren’t just moments, they were who he was.

We saw pieces of him in every story… and somehow, we saw pieces of him in ourselves, too.

That was both comforting and heartbreaking.

Day 4.This was the day the stories felt lighter.There were more smiles, even a few quiet laughs. Not because we forgot, ...
27/03/2026

Day 4.

This was the day the stories felt lighter.

There were more smiles, even a few quiet laughs. Not because we forgot, but because remembering Dad meant remembering his goodness, his humor, and the simple ways he showed love.

Grief didn’t leave; it just softened around the edges.

And in that space, gratitude slowly found its way in.

Day 3.By the third day, the silence between moments felt louder.We begin to notice the small things like the empty space...
27/03/2026

Day 3.

By the third day, the silence between moments felt louder.

We begin to notice the small things like the empty spaces, the routines that won’t be the same again. And yet, the room was never empty.

People stayed. They listened, they laughed, they remembered.

It made us realize that a life well-lived doesn’t end in silence. Instead, it echoes in the people left behind.

Day 2.More photos from this day, more memories slowly coming back.More people came, bringing with them stories—of who ou...
27/03/2026

Day 2.

More photos from this day, more memories slowly coming back.

More people came, bringing with them stories—of who our Dad was beyond us, how he helped, how he showed kindness in his own quiet ways. Listening to them felt like getting to know him all over again.

Day 2.The reality slowly started to sink in.More people came—family, friends, familiar faces from different seasons of h...
27/03/2026

Day 2.

The reality slowly started to sink in.

More people came—family, friends, familiar faces from different seasons of his life. Each story shared felt like discovering another piece of our Dad we hadn’t fully seen before.

Grief was still heavy, but it was gently held by the presence of people who loved him just as deeply.

Somehow, in the middle of loss, there was connection.

It has been almost 40 days, and we are only now finding the strength to look back and share these moments.The first day ...
27/03/2026

It has been almost 40 days, and we are only now finding the strength to look back and share these moments.

The first day of the wake felt like time stood still like everything was happening, yet nothing was real. Faces came and went, prayers were said, and stories began to unfold… each one a quiet reminder of the life our dad lived and the people he touched.

We didn’t realize then how much comfort those moments would eventually bring.

Sharing these in batches, starting from the beginning because grief, just like healing, happens one day at a time.

Day 1. February 20

With full hearts, our family would like to express our deepest gratitude to everyone who walked with us through Daddy’s ...
27/02/2026

With full hearts, our family would like to express our deepest gratitude to everyone who walked with us through Daddy’s illness, wake, and burial. In one of the hardest seasons of our lives, you carried us.

To our dear neighbors, thank you for coming to help from Daddy’s very first hospital admission. Your quiet presence, ready hands, and constant checking in meant more to us than words can say. You showed us what community truly is.

To Daddy’s medical team from day one, Dr. Cacanindin, Dr. Calibuso, Dr. Casuga, Dr. Espiritu, Dr. Eustaquio, Dr. Laurencio, Dr. Suclad, and Dr. Tadeo, thank you for ensuring he received the best possible care at every stage. Your dedication, honesty, and compassion guided us through so many difficult decisions.

To Daddy’s nephews, nieces, and siblings, thank you for watching over him in the hospital even on nights when you had work the next day. Your time, sacrifice, and love did not go unnoticed. He was never alone because of you.

To the nurses and respiratory teams of the 2nd Floor of Notre Dame Hospital and the ICU nurses of Pines City Doctors Hospital, thank you for attending to Daddy with such patience, understanding, expertise, and genuine care. You treated him with dignity and treated us with kindness during moments of fear and uncertainty.

To Bishop Rafael Cruz, Bishop Valentin Dimoc, and all the priests who officiated the wake masses and celebrated Daddy’s burial Mass, thank you for praying over him and over our family, for your presence, and for reminding us of God’s promises even in our grief.

To relatives from Bontoc and Buguias, and to all other relatives who came to aid and help us attend to visitors so we could focus on our mom and our grief, thank you for making sure our family and all our visitors were well fed and cared for throughout the wake. Your generosity, quiet service, and steady support sustained us in more ways than one.

To Daddy’s close friends and brothers in Freemasonry, thank you for sharing your stories of Dad when he was young and of the good relationships he maintained with each of you. Your recollections reminded us of the life he lived beyond our home and the lasting friendships he cherished.

To everyone who came from near and far to visit, to sit with us, to share your stories about Daddy, thank you. The testimonials we heard were a beautiful reminder of the life he lived and the many lives he touched.

To everyone who attended the burial Mass and who stayed with us until Daddy was laid to rest, thank you for making time on a weekday to be with our family. Your presence meant so much during this deeply significant moment of farewell.

We are deeply grateful to each and every one of you. In our sorrow, we felt surrounded by love. Thank you for honoring Daddy’s life with us. May the good Lord bless you a thousand fold. 🙏🏼

-Lovelyne, Cheryl, and AJ

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