09/04/2013
(My letter to the mom of a 22 year old sweet girl, Rovil Villas, who had AML in May 2012, relapsed in January 2013, Did a second round of chemo and joined our creator yesterday 4/6)
Dear Tita ,
Yesterday was a very sad day for me. I know it was for you & your family as well. When I read about R in Fb, I sat down & cried. I had to go about my day but with constant crying the whole day.
Rovil's gone.
And I haven't even known her.
We had something in common. AML.
I am a mother too, Tita. But, I cannot in any way imagine the pain you feel right now.
Rovil...22... Gone too soon. Gone too soon.
I guess I'm crying for myself too.
I'm 33 & I really want to live to see my grandchildren.
Last night, as I cried in the car, I was comforted knowing that God's will was done in Rovil's full life. I cannot explain it. God wanted her home. What better place could she be in right now?
No pain, no suffering. No
Needles, catheters, blood tests, transfusions. Lots of singing & dancing & playing & laughing. She's in a good place now.
I don't know how this will affect your family.
I just really pray Tita that God gives you strength to overcome the loss & sadness. I pray that you continue to see God's wisdom & power.
I will also do that, Tita.
I also pray that you, your family, friends, & relatives, Rovil's sister... Will all try to live a long, good, quality life. To live fully for the years Rovil couldnt live. To make the best of everyday. To become the best people we could be. To be as close to God as could be. To live a life of fun& adventure , or peace & quiet, of daily gratitude & appreciation, and most importantly, a life of love.
My deepest sympathy with you Tita & your family. Kara & I wear the shirt that you & Rovil gave us. It reminds me of 2 beautiful souls I knew thru my own journey.
And when my own battle is over, I'd like to see you & hug you. Rovil was a very blessed girl to have a mom like you. And I'm sure you made her the happiest girl with your love & care.
God bless you Tita.