Ms. Bulge Ambassador 2025

13/06/2026

Download your slides on Explicit Prior Permission for consent to kink, and research on the harm caused by sexual choking that you can include in your own workshops - https://ncsfreedom.org/educational-outreach-overview/

25/05/2026

This morning I’m heading back home from IMLBB. I had a great experience working on staff this year and participating in the education track.

To the friends I traveled with, was reunited with and made this weekend, safe travels home! We all came to IMLBB for different reasons and I hope that no matter what you left with something that you wanted or needed. As we go back to our day to day lives, be gentle with yourself- body, mind and spirit and don’t forget you still carry the magic of these events when you leave. You in fact contributed to the magic that we all experience when we come together in our crazy, kinky, Leather spaces. ✨

25/05/2026

I enjoyed interviewing Jason Elliot about the IMLBB Art Show this weekend. I hope this art show is the first of many!

25/05/2026

Congratulations to 2026 IML Honey Davenport and 2026 IMBB Atlas Rose! ❤️🖤💙

24/05/2026

It was such an honor to sit down with Peter Fiske. Our Leather history is so critical to learn, honor, preserve, and continue building upon. Hearing stories from those who helped shape this community reminds us that Leather is more than titles, gear, or events. It is resilience, connection, chosen family, survival, and legacy carried across generations.

Thank you, Uncle Peter, for sharing your time, your memories, and your perspective with such honesty and care. Conversations like this matter deeply, and I’m grateful to help hold and document these stories for the people coming after us.

To my fellow Leather folks. Please remember that you are history and as you walk through our community, we are all the history. I encourage you to connect with others, hear their stories and share yours.

23/05/2026

If you’re in Chicago this weekend come out tomorrow! ❤️💙🖤

21/05/2026

This week I had the pleasure of facilitating “Ask a S*x Doula: Pleasure, Intimacy & Desire During Pregnancy & Postpartum” with The Amina Institute PTY, and I’m leaving the space feeling incredibly grateful.

So much of my work as Ms. BULGE Ambassador centers visibility, embodiment, consent, care, and honest conversations about our lives and bodies. Being able to hold space for conversations around pleasure, intimacy, desire, and postpartum identity felt deeply aligned with that mission.

Thank you to everyone who showed up with openness, vulnerability, wisdom, and curiosity. Conversations like these remind me how powerful it is when we create spaces where people are allowed to be fully human. 💜

21/05/2026

I’m excited to be teaching in the Professional Track at Thrive this year. My session is designed for mental health professionals, educators, coaches, healers, and others who want to deepen their understanding of B**M communities through a culturally grounded, trauma informed, and consent centered lens.

My work focuses on the intersections of embodiment, mental health, relational dynamics, and B**M, with practical tools for supporting clients and communities with greater care, nuance, and competence.

If this work speaks to you, I’d love to have you in the room. Registration is open now: https://thrivevirtualcon.com

You can find my session in the “Pro Track (Room 4)” column on the schedule.

20/05/2026

We’re incredibly grateful to Kink Center for their generous support of THRIVE 2026! Their donation is fully covering the cost of ASL interpretation for our Opening and Closing Ceremonies.

Please join us in thanking Kink Center and supporting the important work they do:

fetlife.com/KinkCenter
instagram.com/kinkcenter
bsky.app/profile/kinkcenter.org

And if you haven’t yet, registration is open for THRIVE 2026, happening May 29–31! We’d love to have you join us:

Register for THRIVE 2026 at https://THRIVEvirtualcon.com

19/05/2026

I’m very excited to participate in this year’s caucus. See you tomorrow Chicago!

Come join us at the 29th edition of the POC Caucus @ IMLBB on Saturday 5/23 in the Lincoln Room of the Congress Hotel from 1:30pm-3:30pm. The POC Caucus, founded by Master Mufasa Ali, centers and brings together diverse POC and their voices in our Leather Community. This year we welcome LTJ Reads of Throwing Light video podcast as Moderator. All are invited to hear, fellowship and contribute to this important forum.