16/06/2026
When the fire is present,
it can sometimes feel intense, fast, and difficult to understand.
This may be anger, fear, or energy
that has been held for a long time
now finding its way to the surface.
For whānau, this is not a moment to quiet what is rising, but a moment to hold steady. Stay present, without needing to fix or change what is happening.
Keep your voice calm, and your presence grounded.
Acknowledge what is felt without asking for explanation.
Allow space when it is needed, and closeness when it is welcomed.
At the same time, take care to keep yourself and others safe.
Step back if the moment becomes overwhelming or unsafe, and seek support where needed.
The fire is not something to fear. It can carry protection, energy, and life.
Your role is not to put the fire out,
but to hold it safely,
while also holding yourself safely within it.
