10/02/2013
THATS ALL WE NEED
Nurse: "It was a busy morning,
approximately 8:30 am ,
when an elderly gentleman, in his 80's,
presented to have sutures
(stitches) removed from
his thumb. He stated that he was in a hurry as he
had an
appointment at 9:00 am . I
(nurse) took his vital signs and had
him take a seat,
knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see
him. I saw him looking at his watch and
decided, since I was not busy with another
patient, I would evaluate his wound.
On exam
it was well healed, so I talked to one of
the doctors, got the needed
supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, we
began to engage in
conversation. Asked him if he had a doctor's
appointment this morning
somewhere else, as he was in such a
hurry. The gentleman told me no, that
he
needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I then inquired as to her health. He told
me that she
had been there for a while and that
she was a victim of Alzheimer Disease. As we talked, and I finished dressing
his wound, I asked if she would be worried if he
was a bit late. He replied that she no
longer knew who he was, that she had
not recognized him in five years now. I was surprised, and asked him. "And
you are still
going every morning, even
though she doesn't know who you are?"
He smiled as he
patted my hand and said. "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she
is." I had to hold back tears as he left, I
had goose bumps
on my arm, and
thought, "That is the kind of love I want
in my life." True love is neither physical, nor
romantic. True love
is an acceptance of all that is, has
been, will be, and will not be.