07/07/2022
On Saturday, July 2, 2022, our professional trainer, Ms. Malar Villi Suppramaniam from Hearts & Minds, led an Emotional Intelligence Workshop for the Yayasan Sime Darby scholars. This workshop's goals were as follows:
-To understand, appreciate, and acquire fundamental knowledge and skills in Emotional Intelligence.
-To understand the impact of EQ on optimal performance.
-To reveal the cost and benefit of Emotional Intelligence and align it with their life goals.
Ms. Malar introduced five emotional intelligence during the initial session:
Emotional Awareness,
Managing Emotions,
Motivation,
Empathy, and
Managing Others.
These five skills are the foundation for acknowledging our feelings, acting on them, and managing other people in our surroundings.
Throughout this session, scholars were divided into five groups and were required to discuss the topics presented.
Breakout Room Session 1: Each group needed to do a discussion of the advantages and disadvantages of having five emotional intelligence skills. Among the responses we received from our scholars:
Lim Wei Cheng: The benefits of having these competencies include the ability to build strong relationships, improve self-control and communication, and make faster decisions. The disadvantage is that we are vulnerable to stress.
Zainab: "Less conflict; we can be a mental supporter of people around us because we understand them," she quoted (empathy). The disadvantage is that we may become overly focused on others and neglect ourselves as a result of our empathy.
Cynthia Tan: The benefits of having these competencies include being able to do something without being told or pressured to do so, and not being overly reliant on others. The disadvantage is that we will never be able to achieve our objectives.
Breakout Room Session 2: Scholars must answer questions about Emotional Intelligence and can discuss their understanding with the trainer. They had 10 minutes to answer as many questions as they could and record any answers that were ambiguous.
Breakout Room Session 3: Discuss which actions belong to the pre-frontal cortex and which decision-making belongs to the brain part.
The topics of this series include:
- Three Parts of the Brain
The Ventromedial Prefrontal Cortex
The Frontal Cortex
The Amygdala
- Triune Mind
Neocortex Brain: This is the Rational or Thinking Brain.
Limbic Brain: Feeling Emotional Brain
Reptilian Brain: Dinosaur Brain or Instinctual Brain
- Emotional Hijack
When the amygdala takes over the rational thought process. This can happen during difficult interactions with others, such as when you are angry, frightened, or anxious.
-6 minutes Pause
A 6-second pause allows the rational brain to process sensory information. This can help us recognize how to act and how we do it in this and other situations.
- 5 Steps in Managing Emotions
Recognize and name the feelings
Recognize the experience and how we perceive it
Check for Accuracy- the mental process by which we determine
whether we perceive the situation correctly
Accept the emotion
Choose Wisely.
- Neuroplasticity
The brain is wired in a specific way when we do the same thing repeatedly. In order to build neuroplasticity, we must start engaging in new routines/hobbies on a frequent basis.
Before attending the workshop, all scholars were required to complete the Assessment, which assessed their level of self-empathy, self-motivation, and emotional management, and this was then discussed with our professional trainer. This is to ensure that the improved their understanding of intelligence and their ability to relate to their life. Aside from that, our trainer shared her knowledge and encouraged the scholars to express their feelings about the emotional experiences they had.
Thank you to Ms. Malar Villi Suppramaniam and Hearts & Minds for this beneficial workshop!