12/11/2025
“Returning to the tribe” with the Armed Forces & Veterans Breakfast Clubs (AFVBC) is about reconnecting with the camaraderie, identity, and support that many veterans miss after leaving service. These clubs offer a welcoming space for veterans and serving personnel to gather, share stories, and rebuild bonds over breakfast.
🥓 What Is “Returning to the Tribe”?
• A powerful metaphor used by veterans to describe the feeling of rejoining a community that understands them.
• It reflects the deep sense of belonging and shared experience among those who’ve served in the Armed Forces.
• Many veterans feel isolated after transitioning to civilian life—AFVBCs help them rediscover connection, purpose, and identity.
🍳 What Are Armed Forces & Veterans Breakfast Clubs?
• Free-to-join informal social clubs where veterans, serving military, reservists, and their families meet regularly for breakfast and banter.
• Started informally in Hull in the 1991, when veterans gathered in a garage for a brew and conversation.
• Now it is a global network with over 500 clubs across the UK and abroad, supporting more than 150,000 members.
💬 Why They Matter
• They combat loneliness and isolation by offering face-to-face interaction in a relaxed setting.
• They provide peer support and shared understanding—veterans often recognise each other instantly and connect through banter and shared stories.
• They help with transitioning to civilian life, offering job opportunities, emotional support, and a sense of routine.
🌍 How to Get Involved
• Visit www.afvbc.world to find a local club or contact them to start your own.
• Clubs are open to veterans, serving personnel, reservists, and dependants.
• Events are informal, welcoming, and often held weekly at local cafés, carveries, public houses or community centers.
🧠 A Message from the Founder
Dereck Hardman, a veteran himself, pioneered the concept in Hull and expanded it globally. His vision was simple: bring veterans together over breakfast to restore the tribe—and it’s changed lives ever since.
If you're a veteran or know someone who is, joining an AFVBC could be a meaningful step toward rediscovering connection and community. Want help finding a club? Sign into the website or get in touch.