05/10/2026
I’ve been thinking a lot about how toxic and dysfunctional so many of our systems seem to have become.
Systems we all rely on.
I think, to some extent, I’ve been in denial about it — desperately hoping that what I’m sensing, seeing, feeling and experiencing isn’t true. Can’t be true.
But I’m no longer quite so convinced.
The systems designed to support us, improve our lives and protect us simply aren’t working as they should.
Nearly two decades of Conservative government, austerity and the hollowing out of public services have taken their toll — and the effects continue to be felt.
Our NHS finally seems to be starting to recover, thank goodness.
But my experience of local government and policing has left me deeply concerned. Too often, instead of acknowledging failure, the response seems to be defensiveness, gaslighting, blame and an unwillingness to put accountability where it belongs — with the service that has failed.
And misogyny is still rife.
I recently watched Mr Bates vs The Post Office. It made me incredibly sad — not only because of what happened to hundreds of innocent people, but because I found myself wondering how much has really changed.
I also watched Blame, a drama about policing and the abuse of women. My husband said he couldn’t imagine the police behaving like that.
I said: “I can.”
Then came the revelation that some of the appalling messages depicted between male officers weren’t simply the invention of a scriptwriter. They were based on real police messages.
That stopped me in my tracks.
Because when institutions that exist to protect people instead close ranks, discredit complainants, blame victims or use their power against the very people seeking their help, we have a serious problem.
When victims themselves begin to feel bullied or targeted by the police, we should all be concerned.
These are not the public services any of us pay for.
We need positive change. Urgently.
And perhaps the thing I find most uncomfortable to admit is this:
I used to dismiss talk of “two-tier policing” as a right-wing scare tactic.
I still dislike the phrase and much of the rhetoric surrounding it. But my own experiences have forced me to ask a question I never expected to be asking:
Is everyone actually treated equally by the systems that are supposed to protect us?
Because increasingly, I’m not convinced they are.
Bedfordshire Police
Metropolitan Police Service
Herts Police
*note the image is AI, not the post. I wrote it myself. Based on my experience.