12/04/2026
That first month in Costa Rica is a beautiful, slightly chaotic mix of excitement, confusion, and “Wait…what day is it again?” energy. You’re learning the rhythm, the language, the roads (or lack thereof), and most importantly… how not to accidentally become that expat. So let’s have some fun with ten things you’ll want to avoid if you’re aiming for good vibes, new friendships, and a smooth entry into the Pura Vida lifestyle.
1. Don’t say, “Well, back in the States…”
Nothing kills a conversation faster than turning every moment into a comparison. In Costa Rica, things are different on purpose. If you start every sentence with how things are done elsewhere, locals and expats alike will mentally put you in the “adjustment pending” category.
2. Don’t rush… anything
Whether it’s waiting in line, getting paperwork done, or ordering your lunch at a soda—speed is not the goal here. If you’re huffing, puffing, or checking your watch every 12 seconds, you’re basically announcing, “I have not yet surrendered to Pura Vida.”
3. Don’t complain about the rain
Yes, it pours. Sometimes dramatically. But complaining about rain in Costa Rica is like complaining about sand at the beach—it’s part of the magic. Locals embrace it. You should too… or at least pretend with a smile.
4. Don’t skip learning basic Spanish
You don’t need to be fluent, but if you refuse to learn even a few phrases, it can come off as dismissive. A simple “gracias” or “buenos días” goes a long way—and earns instant respect (and better service, let’s be honest).
5. Don’t act like a know-it-all after 10 days
You’ve figured out where to get coffee and how to find Wi-Fi—congratulations! But maybe don’t start giving relocation seminars just yet. Long-time expats will smile politely… while silently enjoying your learning curve.
6. Don’t disrespect the “tico time” mindset
Things may start late. Or change. Or not happen at all. That’s not disorganization—it’s a different relationship with time. Fighting it is like arguing with the tide.
7. Don’t treat Costa Rica like a theme park
This isn’t a vacation anymore—it’s home. Being overly loud, flashy, or treating every outing like spring break can rub people the wrong way. The charm here is in the everyday simplicity.
8. Don’t ignore local customs
From greeting people properly to understanding how things are done in small communities, respect matters. Costa Ricans (Ticos) are incredibly warm—but they notice effort, and they appreciate it.
9. Don’t get pulled into expat negativity
There’s always that one group sitting around listing everything that’s “wrong.” If you join in too quickly, you’ll miss the joy that made you move here in the first place. Protect your mindset—it’s gold.
10. Don’t forget why you came
Somewhere between setting up your bank account and figuring out your grocery routine, it’s easy to lose sight of the bigger picture. You came for a better life, a lighter spirit, maybe even a little adventure. Don’t trade that for stress—it defeats the whole purpose.
At the end of your first month, if you’ve laughed at yourself, embraced the slower pace, and maybe gotten caught in the rain once or twice without complaining… you’re doing it right. Costa Rica has a way of gently reshaping you—and if you let it, you’ll find yourself smiling a whole lot more without even knowing why. Pura Vida isn’t something you chase… it’s something you grow into.
