02/23/2023
I LOVE this!
When we stop to 'read between the lines' of our children's behavior, we can tune into their hearts, their hurts, their confusion, their frustration, their needs. Thatโs how we connect with our little humans to guide and help and heal them instead of simply correcting their behavior.
Always let L.O.V.E. be your guide:
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Listen - โI hear you.โ
Observe - โI see you.โ
Validate - โI accept you.โ
Empathize - โI understand you.โ
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Then when the need behind the behavior is met, when they feel seen and heard and understood, you can work together to come up with better ways of expressing their needs in the future. But remember, growing up is a process and it takes a LOT of practice. They wonโt get it right every time. They may not even get it right most of the time. But over time youโll see them grow more and more confident and capable of understanding and expressing their needs verbally and relationally. They wonโt ever be perfect, though, and thatโs okay. We arenโt, either.๐
-L.R.Knost
๐ท Positive Parenting: Toddlers and Beyond Dance with me in the Heart ๐
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