14/09/2026
KE ENG GO SA SIAMA GO TSHWANTSHANYA/GO COMPETISA BANA?
1. IT KILLS SELF ESTEEM/CONFIDENCE
Ngwana o kgona go ipona e se motho wa sepe hela ka lebaka la go tlhola a bolellwa gore o gaisiwa ke semangmang.
2. IT DISCOURAGES THE CHILD
Go kgoba marapo go nna o re o a iteka mme maiteko a gago a sa lemogiwe ka ntlha ya gore a tshwantshiwa le a yo mongwe. Kgantle ngwana o a tlogela ka go iteka
3. IT CAN BREED HATRED, SIBLING RIVALRY AND JEALOUSY
O kgona go ruta ngwana wa gago go ila, go huhegela ba bangwe (le ha e le ngwana wa mmagwe) wena o re ke jaaka o mo kgothatsa gore a iteke a tshwane le yo mongwe. Letlhoo le, le kgona go tswelela le ba godile ele bagolo janong. Kgothatsa ngwana hela o sa mo tshwantshe le ope.
4. IT CAN TEACH CHILDREN THAT THEIR WORTH IS ONLY MEASURED AGAINST OTHERS, WHICH IS WRONG
Motheo o ntseng jalo ga o a siamela dingwaga tsa bone tsa adolescence or ba setse ba tla go nna bagolo. Ngwana o tshwanetse go itse gore “their best competitor should be him/herself first”
5. IT CAN STRAIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH THE CHILD
Go na le bagolo ba ba santseng ba palelwa ke go itshwarela batsadi ba bone ka ntlha ya gore ba ne ba ba tshwantshanya le bana ba bangwe/ba malapa a mangwe phetelela ha ba gola. Le ke lengwe la mabaka a tumileng thata a “childhood traumas”
6. IT MAY BLIND YOU FROM NOTICING THE GOOD TRAITS
Go tlhola o competisa ngwana le ba bangwe, go ka go kgoreletsa go lemoga le tse dintle tse ngwana a di dirang. Ka jalo o palelwe le ke go mo galaletsa
7. IT BRINGS UNNECESSARY PRESSURE ON THE CHILD
Bana ba ba tewang gotwe ba gaisiwa ke ba bangwe, ba tshelela mo kgatelelong ya go leka go nna botoka mo go ba bangwe. Se se ka baka malwetsi a maikutlo/tlhaloganyo, go dirisa diritibatsi, go ikgapela botshelo jalo jalo. Gakologelwa gore, le ene yo o nnang gotwe o gaisa ba bangwe, o kgona go tshelela mo kgatelelong e e kalo ya go leka go nna “perfect”
DON’T RIDICULE
DON’T COMPARE 🙏🙏❤️🥰
Changing the world, one child at a time 👌💃💃
