10/09/2026
Today we’re sharing part 2 of Andy’s story, as told by her mother, Pam.
As her illness progressed, Andy could no longer go out to see her Canteen friends for coffee, so they started coming to her.
When the time came, she asked to go back to respite. She knew she wasn’t coming home. Walking through the house, she said goodbye to the little things – her hairbrush, the shower, the towels.
“I realised then that she also knew she was not going to be with us for much longer,” says Pam.
In her final days in hospital, Andy asked to call her Canteen friends and invite them to her birthday. She made it a few days later. Everyone came, held her hands and sang happy birthday.
“As we finished I said, ‘okay sweetie, you can go now.’ Her eyes flickered and her hand gave a little squeeze. She then lapsed into the life-ending coma and slipped away.”
Thirty years on, her mother carries her memory, and a message for anyone walking this road: “Remember, as hard as a day is, the smile can work wonders.”
Pam is choosing to leave a gift in her will to Canteen, to help ensure other young people facing cancer have that same sense of belonging that Canteen gave Andy. Thank you, Pam. 💚 It’s Include A Charity Week – if you’d like to leave a gift to Canteen in your Will, please visit https://bit.ly/4zHalG3