03/06/2026
Today is 1 year since my mum Jenni died.
Some do say 'pass away' but just like life, death is a reality we all experience and eventually face ourselves. So I call it what it is on this day.
In her last weeks because of the cancer growing in her brain she could not remember our names or eventually even speak, but she knew she loved us and we loved her.
In the lead up to and following her death I have certainly seen the best and worst in others, and also in myself.
Jenni lost her father at 15, became an umarried single mum at 20, lost her mum at 21, and then at 31 my brother Kurt was taken from her in a bycycle accident.
Her experience showed me grief is a daily, weekly, monthly and yearly thing. Sometimes certain dates in the calendar make it a bit challenging, but she lived with it, it never went away...It's not something you 'get over'. Grief follows us not just in those we have lost, but also the friends, the relationships and things we could/should have done better..or not.
Today I can only say I miss her - She really backed me 100% and never let me down, even when I fell short.
So today if you happen to read this, I can only say, hug the ones you love and look the world right in the eye. You will always be suprised with what you can do and what you can live with.
Love you mum ❤️