09/09/2026
The difference between care and control matters.
Coercive control can be difficult to recognise, particularly when controlling behaviours are presented as love, concern or protection.
Respect Victoria’s new See the Signs campaign is helping Victorians recognise the patterns of behaviour that can restrict a person’s independence, autonomy and freedom.
At Emerge, we know that family violence is not always physical. Understanding the many ways violence and control can occur is an important part of recognising harm and supporting people to access help.
We encourage you to explore the campaign, learn more about the signs of coercive control and share these resources with others.
Recognising the signs can be an important first step towards safer relationships and informed support.
Learn more via Respect Victoria’s See the Signs campaign: https://www.respectvictoria.vic.gov.au/campaigns/see-the-signs
If you're concerned about something happening in your relationship, or the relationship of someone you know, you can reach out to a specialist support service for advice, including:
Safe Steps: 24/7 Victorian family and domestic violence crisis response on 1800 015 188 or chat online.
1800RESPECT: National domestic, family and sexual violence counselling service. Call 1800 737 732, or get support by text message, online chat or video call.
InTouch: For migrant and refugee women experiencing family violence. Call 1800 755 988.
Men's Referral Service is available for men who are concerned about their own behaviours and want to change. It's a free, anonymous, 24/7 counselling service. Call 1300 766 491.