Forward Purpose Project

Forward Purpose Project The Forward Purpose Movement is about intentional growth and moving forward with purpose. It supports veterans and anyone facing big life changes.

Focused on honesty, healing, and real connection. A reminder that no one is alone in their journey. Ben Jarvis is a U.S. Army Veteran, mental health advocate, husband, father, and community leader dedicated to service long after the uniform came off. After years of silence, struggle, and rebuilding, Ben now uses his lived experience to break stigma and help others find purpose, connection, and dir

ection. He is the creator of The Forward Purpose Project (FPP) and the upcoming Still in the Fight series launching 28 January 2026—a year-long journey exploring life after service, healing, identity, and the courage it takes to grow forward. Ben’s mission is simple: use honesty, vulnerability, and real experience to help one person at a time feel less alone. Beyond advocacy, Ben continues to serve his Wisconsin community, support veteran organizations, and lift others through mentorship, storytelling, and connection. His life’s theme has always been service—now focused on mental health, purpose, and the belief that no one has to fight their battles alone.

I want to thank my friend Caroline Kreitlow for taking me to discourse coffee in the 3rd Ward. Tonight they did a discou...
06/04/2026

I want to thank my friend Caroline Kreitlow for taking me to discourse coffee in the 3rd Ward. Tonight they did a discourse topic of Kanye. There had to be over 70 people there tonight. I was very nervous to speak so I wrote my thoughts down and this is what I contributed to tonight's conversation. It was a cool moment and appreciated those that dapped me up and that I met and talked to afterwards. No mater how much I have accomplished in my life my internal always goes to negative (trauma). That trauma has always taught me that people will always think I am stupid and to stay small. Being Bi-polar and having this personality disorder there will always be two Bens, but working hard to be one. Glad I wrote my thoughts down and shared.

I've always believed in being able to separate the artist from the art. What I find interesting is how selective we can be with our outrage. Many people are quick to condemn Kanye for his offensive statements or actions, yet we often celebrate forms of hip-hop and gangster rap that glorify violence, exploitation of women, materialism, and behaviors that can be equally destructive when people fail to separate entertainment from reality. The hype, emotion, and influence of any artist can impact people in moments of poor judgment, regardless of the genre. If we're going to examine the impact of art on society, then we should be willing to have honest conversations across the entire spectrum rather than focusing on one individual.

As someone living with bipolar disorder, I also see this topic through a different lens. I know firsthand the battle between periods where creativity feels completely absent (hence 3 months no forward purpose project or real estate scocial) and times when ideas, emotions, and inspiration come so rapidly that it's difficult to slow them down. There are days when my mind feels quiet and disconnected, and other days when it feels like every thought is connected to ten more. That internal struggle has given me a greater appreciation for how closely creativity, emotion, and mental health can sometimes be intertwined. It doesn't excuse harmful behavior, nor should it. Accountability still matters. But it does remind me that human beings are often far more complex than the public sees.

That complexity is why I try to separate the artist from the art. We can acknowledge when someone has said or done something offensive while still recognizing the impact of their creative work. In Kanye's case, while I strongly disagree with some of his words and actions, I've often felt there is a deeper meaning behind much of what he creates. Whether people agree with him or not, he has consistently challenged conventional thinking, questioned systems, and sparked conversations that many others are unwilling to have. Sometimes he is wrong. Sometimes he is offensive. But there is often a larger message buried beneath the controversy.

For me, separating the artist from the art isn't about excusing behavior, it's about recognizing that creativity, mental health, human flaws, and artistic expression are rarely simple. We can hold people accountable while still examining their work, appreciating their talent, and seeking to understand the deeper meaning behind what they are trying to say.

-Ben J.

Hello friends,It’s been five weeks since my last episode… and I owe you all a moment of honesty.First,  thank you. To ev...
05/01/2026

Hello friends,

It’s been five weeks since my last episode… and I owe you all a moment of honesty.

First, thank you. To everyone who reached out, checked in, or simply stayed connected… it meant more than you know. The silence wasn’t distance, it was me doing the work.

There are two reasons I’ve been quiet.

The first will unfold in May’s series, and I promise you, it’s coming. If you’ve been following along, you know these episodes aren’t just content for me. They’re real. They come from a place that isn’t always easy to revisit, and sometimes stepping back is part of moving forward. The next chapter will speak to that in a way I haven’t before.

The second reason is an opportunity I didn’t see coming.

I was approached by a marketing manager from a well-established Milwaukee business. I can’t share the name just yet, as the project hasn’t been publicly announced, but what I can say is this:

This is bigger than me.

This is an opportunity to move the Forward Purpose Project forward in a meaningful way. It’s a chance to tell my story, the real story, of navigating mental health after service. Not the polished version… the honest one. The one that shows that asking for help isn’t weakness. That the road is messy, imperfect, and still worth walking.

If it reaches even one veteran who’s struggling… if it helps them pause, take a breath, and choose to stay… then it matters.

Su***de is not the answer to temporary problems. Your story doesn’t end there. Your legacy deserves more.

I’ll be filming this Sunday with their videographer coming in from New York.

How did this even happen?

They saw the recognition as a “Positively Milwaukee Inspiring Veteran,” but more importantly, they saw the work. The conversations. The mission around veteran mental health and su***de prevention. It resonated with them.

For over 40 years, this business has been a place where stories are shared, preserved, and remembered. As they step into a milestone year, they felt a responsibility to highlight voices in the community making a real impact.

They believed this story, our story, was one worth telling.

And they’ve invited me to be part of their filmed conversation series.

I don’t take that lightly.

Stay tuned, my friends.

-Ben Jarvis

04/18/2026

We had lost power again here. This is has been one hell of a week with the storms. Next episode will drop as soon as I can edit..lol.

03/26/2026

New episode to drop this weekend. It will be the most real yet.

03/06/2026

How I Finally Asked for Help

03/06/2026

Navigating Chaos_ Recognizing Danger Before It's Too Late

03/06/2026

From Trauma to Survival_ Understanding Your Deepest Needs

02/27/2026

To my brother and sisters

02/27/2026

Episode 4: Bad Days Will Come

Some days in trauma recovery feel like you’re standing between two paths:

Healing…
or destruction.

Old wiring still activates.
Anger still surfaces.
Survival patterns still pull.

That doesn’t mean you’re failing.
It means you’re human — and doing the work.

If you’re fighting yourself some days, you’re not alone.

Still in the fight.


02/27/2026

🎥 Reel Description

There’s a part of trauma recovery people don’t talk about enough:

The darkness you still carry.

The anger.
The survival wiring.
The part of you that learned to live hard just to stay alive.

Some days that battle is loud.
But fighting it doesn’t make you broken — it means you’re still choosing who you want to be.

If you’re carrying things from your past that still pull at you… You’re not alone.

Still in the fight.

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Candlewick Drive
Sussex, WI
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