07/25/2026
San Mateo County: A historic n**e beach which has long been frequented by gay men will soon be subsumed into an adjacent California State Park with nudity banned under uniform state regulations.
San Gregorio Beach, just south of Half Moon Bay near the junction of Highway 1 and Highway 84, is about a one-hour drive south of San Francisco.
The isolated n**e beach area north of San Gregorio Beach State Park previously was accessible only via the privately owned San Gregorio Ranch, with paid limited parking and limited admission. The land has been acquired by the Peninsula Open Space Trust, which will provide much expanded public access.
San Gregorio has attracted nudists at least since the late 1950s. When the Bay Area Reporter began publishing in 1971, the classifieds occasionally mentioned the beach, as in this ad for an es**rt from the August 1, 1971, issue: "Enjoys living, from cultural music to art and then on to po*******hy ending with possibly a trip to San Gregorio Beach where they let it all hang out."
By May 1973, a tour business named Epicurus was advertising chartered bus trips from San Francisco to "San Gregorio — enjoy the Gay N**e Beach every day of summer." In the 1970s and 1980s, San Gregorio Beach also became a destination for runs organized by San Francisco gay motorcycle and cycling clubs.
A BAR roundup in 1979 by Charles Finley, "The Best Bay Area N**e Beaches," notes that "the n**e area is off the state land area, thus it is hassle free by the rangers. Extremely popular beach on warm days and known as California's first free beach which began in the mid-60s."
The mid-1980s saw Ben Hernandez and Ronald Sturgeon, the gay operators of the rental parking lot and private trail for San Gregorio Beach, unsuccessfully targeted by lawsuits from neighbors complaining that the business encouraged trespassing and public homosexual activity.
San Gregorio was marked more than once in a particularly moving way in the 1980s–early 1990s as a location for scattering ashes of men who had loved the beach. The September 15, 1985, obituary of John Brannon following his death from a heart attack indicated "John's favorite place in this world was the beach at San Gregorio. In accordance with his wishes, his ashes will be scattered there one bright, sunny day in the future."
The July 3, 1986, obituary for 32-year-old Mark Ryan, brings the memory of the darkest hours of the 1980s to the shore: "His ashes were returned to the sea at his beloved San Gregorio on June 25 following a memorial service. After a long illness with ARC and AIDS, he died as he had lived: with quiet dignity, astonishing humor, enormous patience and the music of Mozart."
Likely the most widely known gay man whose survivors scattered his ashes at San Gregorio is Al Parker (né Andrew Robert Okun), who died of AIDS on August 17, 1992, at age 40. Parker was one of the most celebrated stars, producers and directors of gay erotic videos of the era, working with C**t Studios, Bijou Video and his own Surge Studios.
San Gregorio Beach stands as an example of the ways natural environments no less than built environments can take on meaning as LGBTQ+ historic sites — in this case, an isolated shore marked by nearly seven decades of q***r friendship, pleasure, loss, grief and remembrance. If you have memories of gay times at San Gregorio, please post a comment.