06/05/2025
Salem Oregon Munch
2,427 members
Munch Code of Conduct
TheDaddyFox
43NB Switch
This Code of Conduct outlines the expected behavior for all attendees, organizers, and volunteers at our Munch events. Our aim is to create a welcoming, safe, and respectful environment where everyone feels comfortable to socialize, learn, and connect. By attending our Munch, you agree to abide by this Code of Conduct.
Respect and Inclusivity:
Treat everyone with respect and dignity. This includes respecting differences in identity, experience, and perspective.
We embrace diversity. Discrimination or harassment based on (but not limited to) age, race, ethnicity, gender identity or expression, sexual orientation, disability, physical appearance, religion, socioeconomic status, or kinky identity/preference will not be tolerated.
Be mindful of personal space and boundaries. Always ask before touching someone.
Consent is Paramount:
"No" means "No," and "Yes" means "Yes, enthusiastically." This applies to all interactions, whether physical, verbal, or social.
Do not pressure anyone into disclosing personal information or engaging in conversations they are uncomfortable with.
Respect privacy. Do not share private information about other attendees without their explicit consent.
Public Conduct and Discretion:
Remember, we are in a public venue. While we provide a space for our community, please be mindful of non-community members around us.
Keep conversations appropriate for a public setting. Avoid overly explicit or graphic discussions that might be disturbing to others, especially those not part of our group.
Dress appropriately for the venue. While leather and kinky attire may be part of our identity, ensure your clothing choice respects the public nature of the restaurant/coffee shop and its patrons. Essentially, make sure you are vanilla-ish to the door and ge****ls covered while inside.
Maintain a low profile regarding overt kinky behavior. This is a social gathering, not a play party. Public displays of affection or activities that could be misconstrued as inappropriate for a public setting of the bar or any other space we may occupy, are not permitted.
Harassment and Unacceptable Behavior:
Harassment of any kind will not be tolerated. This includes, but is not limited to, offensive verbal comments, intimidation, stalking, unwanted photography or recording, disruption of conversations, or unwelcome sexual attention.
If someone tells you to stop, stop immediately.
Do not bring or consume illegal substances.
Excessive intoxication that leads to disruptive or inappropriate behavior is not permitted.
Photography and Recording:
Always ask for explicit consent before taking photos or videos of individuals.
Do not post photos or videos of attendees online without their explicit consent. Some members may prioritize their privacy and anonymity.
Be mindful of backgrounds. If you take a photo of something else, ensure identifiable individuals are not in the background without their permission.
Conflict Resolution and Reporting:
If you experience or witness behavior that violates this Code of Conduct, please inform a Munch organizer immediately. Your concerns will be handled with discretion and respect.
Organizers will address reports promptly and fairly. Possible actions may include a warning, asking an individual to leave the event, or banning them from future events.
Retaliation against anyone reporting a concern in good faith will not be tolerated.
Personal Responsibility:
You are responsible for your own actions and behavior.
If you are unsure about whether a behavior is appropriate, please ask an organizer.
Come with an open mind and a willingness to engage positively.
We encourage the RACK and FRIES models of consent. (Risk Aware Consentual Kink) (Freely Given Informed Enthusiastic Specific)
Behavior Beyond the Munch Events:
This Code of Conduct extends to interactions that impact the Munch community, even if they occur outside of our scheduled gatherings. This includes, but is not limited to, private messages, social media, and other community spaces where attendees identify themselves as part of our Munch. Harassment, bullying, doxing (publishing private information without consent), or spreading malicious rumors about Munch members or the Munch itself will not be tolerated. Our aim is to foster a safe and supportive environment both within and beyond our physical meetups. Violations in these external spaces may result in consequences up to and including being excluded from future Munch events.
