Memory Cafe of NNY

Memory Cafe of NNY A dementia-friendly social gathering for people with memory changes and their care partners, we open once each month at no cost.

Come sip coffee, eat a light lunch, sing along to music, join in on a hands-on activity, and meet more people who understand.

Read this piece from start to finish! It's an extremely important read about a fundamental right.“There are many misperc...
10/16/2020

Read this piece from start to finish! It's an extremely important read about a fundamental right.

“There are many misperceptions of what ‘capacity to vote’ is,” said Charles Sabatino, director of the American Bar Association Commission on Law and Aging. “Incapacity to follow a recipe and cook dinner doesn’t mean incapacity to vote. The inability to remember your grandchildren’s names doesn’t mean you can’t vote.”

What is required — as the commission and the Penn Memory Center point out in a new guide — is the ability to express a preference.

Workers in nursing homes and assisted living facilities, as well as family members, may refuse to assist impaired voters because they believe that dementia disqualifies them.

It doesn’t. A diagnosis of cognitive impairment does not bar someone from voting. Voters need pass no cognitive tests. They don’t have to be able to name the candidates or explain the issues. If they need help reading or physically marking the ballot, they can be assisted, either at the polls or with mail-in ballots. In some states, even people under court-appointed guardianship don’t lose their voting rights.

Voters need not complete the ballot; they can vote for president and ignore everything else. There is no time limit; a relative or paid caregiver can help the voter complete a mail-in ballot over several days. Write-ins are permitted. “If they tell you they want to vote for F.D.R., you write in F.D.R.,” Mr. Sabatino said.

“You may find it disturbing to write in someone odd, but we let people do that,” Dr. Karlawish said. Voters with normal cognition may write in the name of Mickey Mouse, select the first person on the ballot, whoever that might be, and otherwise behave less than rationally. “We can’t hold certain people to standards that we don’t hold everyone else to, when it’s a matter of a fundamental right,” Dr. Karlawish said.

Yes, you can help a cognitively impaired person participate in the election. But heed these two guidelines.

05/21/2020

By incorporating art and creativity into elder care settings, gerontologist Anne Basting helps families reconnect with loved ones who have dementia. In this moving talk, she shares how asking "beautiful questions" -- questions that don't have a right or wrong answer -- opens up a shared path of disc...

05/10/2020
The bedtime story we could all use right now 🌙⭐️🌝
05/03/2020

The bedtime story we could all use right now 🌙⭐️🌝

"The Great Realisation" by British artist and poet "Probably Tomfoolery". He is a brilliant visual storyteller, utilizing all the tools we have at hand - cam...

Coming to a mailbox near you! 📬 If you haven't already, send your address if you'd like to receive a little love (or kno...
04/29/2020

Coming to a mailbox near you! 📬 If you haven't already, send your address if you'd like to receive a little love (or know someone else who could use it).

Lynn Casteel Harper looks to the example of Emerson, whose memory failed him in the last years of his life, but whose fr...
04/23/2020

Lynn Casteel Harper looks to the example of Emerson, whose memory failed him in the last years of his life, but whose friends described him not as deteriorating but as living in a protracted state of dreaming. Perhaps here is a better model, she posits. “Dreaming does not necessarily inspire dread; rather, dreaming is considered a part of life, albeit one of its stranger manifestations. Dreamers do not endure social stigma, humiliation or ostracization. To the contrary, dreaming metaphors often invoke tender, even spiritual, qualities.”

In “On Vanishing,” Lynn Casteel Harper argues that society needs a better approach to understand and care for people who are suffering cognitive decline.

04/18/2020

Disruptions in routines and the need for hands-on care are among the special challenges for dementia patients and their caregivers.

Tomorrow is the 2nd Tuesday of the month - the day we're used to getting together to give and get support, to hug and to...
04/13/2020

Tomorrow is the 2nd Tuesday of the month - the day we're used to getting together to give and get support, to hug and to chat, to make something or take something in. For now, these gatherings aren't possible for the sake of everyone's health/safety. In this meantime, please keep staying home and saving lives

03/25/2020

Have you heard about the new COVID19 emotional support helpline yet? It's a free resource for anyone living in New York State who may be struggling with anxiety and stress around this public health emergency, and is staffed by specially trained volunteer professionals. Just call 1-844-863-9314 ☎️

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A Dementia-Friendly Social Gathering: FAQs

Q: Who’s idea was this? A: With roots in the Netherlands, a Dutch psychiatrist introduced the “Memory Cafe” as a way to destroy the stigma associated with dementia, as such silence causes those with the disease and their caregivers increased suffering. Its immediate success led to over 200 gatherings throughout this one, tiny country.

Q: Why bring this idea all the way from Europe to Northern New York? A: Approximately 6 million Americans are living with Alzheimer’s, and more than 16 million Americans provide unpaid care for people with Alzheimer’s or other dementias.

Q: Who does a Memory Cafe serve? A: We provide a safe and stimulating social environment for people living with Alzheimer’s and other dementias, as well as those surviving a stroke or traumatic brain injury, along with their care partners.

Q: Can I just drop off my loved one? A: Nope! Instead think of a Memory Cafe as a support group with a twist; you can both make connections with those being challenged in a similar manner. Besides, it’s the perfect time to break from your normal routine and take advantage of super specialized activities designed with both of your enjoyment in mind.