08/23/2026
For most of our kids, tomorrow is the first day of school. Some have already started.
The usual back-to-school safety reminders are important, and I’ve included them below. But there’s another side of going back to school that we don’t talk about nearly as much, and I think it deserves just as much attention.
The first day of school can bring a lot of anxiety for a child, especially when they’re starting a new school or moving into a new grade. Sometimes that anxiety doesn’t look like worry. It can show up as a headache, nausea, an upset stomach, or even vomiting. Never dismiss a child actually being sick, but remember that sometimes their body is expressing what they don’t know how to put into words.
Keep the lines of communication open. I know work, dinner, and just everyday life can get in the way, but take a little time every day to ask how their day went and really listen. Put the phone down. Look them in the eyes.
Encourage them to do THEIR best, not somebody else’s best. Tell them you believe in them. Tell them you’re proud of them. And most importantly, tell them you love them.
Teach them to be kind, too. Not every child walking through those doors tomorrow was able to start the year with new clothes, new shoes, or all the school supplies they wanted. A little kindness can mean more than they realize.
And one last thing. If you’ve never read Psalm 91 in the Bible, or it’s been a while, take a few minutes tonight and read it. It is a prayer of protection. Pray it over your children, all the other children, our schools, our teachers, staff, and our School Resource Officers.
Take care of them, listen to them, encourage them, pray for them, and remind them to look out for each other.
- Mickey Tillman
Candidate for Craven County Sheriff