08/25/2026
Today, I’m reflecting on the life and legacy of Dolly Parton, who has passed away. It’s hard to put into words what she has meant to so many people, but I know her music, kindness, and generosity have touched generations.
I’ve been a country music fan for a long time. Many of my loved ones have teased me about it over the years because, as a Black and q***r man, I’m not necessarily who you picture when you think of the Grand Ole Opry. But I’ve always found something deeply human in old-school country music. The best of it tells the truth about life: the heartbreak and the joy, the struggle and the hope, the pain and the beauty. Those are things every one of us can understand, regardless of where we come from.
Dolly embodied that spirit so beautifully.
Her commitment to literacy through the Imagination Library is especially meaningful to me. Giving a child a book is about so much more than putting words on a page. It is giving them imagination. It is giving them a chance to dream, learn, explore, and see possibilities beyond what they may see around them. Literacy opens doors, strengthens communities, and can change the trajectory of a life.
That is something I hope to continue championing right here in Grand Rapids. Every child in our city deserves access to books, opportunities to learn, and the tools they need to imagine a future bigger than their circumstances.
But beyond her music and philanthropy, Dolly was a shining beacon of kindness, happiness, generosity, and hope. She showed us that you can have an enormous platform without losing your humility, and that success can be measured by how many people you help along the way.
In her honor, I hope we can all carry a little more of that spirit into our own lives. Be kinder. Give more freely. Make someone laugh. Help a child dream. Offer hope when someone needs it most.
I’m enjoying being at City Commission today with a jam-packed meeting, but I can’t wait to get home later and listen to Dolly’s “Shine.”
“Heaven, let your light shine down.”
That feels like the perfect hope for our city: that even through difficult days, we continue to let our light shine, look out for one another, and make Grand Rapids a place where every person has the opportunity to find a little more hope.
Thank you, Dolly, for showing us how much light one person can bring into the world.
Read more on my substack:
https://marshallkilgore.substack.com/p/remembering-dolly-parton-let-your?r=qtwj5&utm_medium=ios