Beware Kayin Owens Up For Grabs - AKA Kro and Krodogg

10/26/2025

Thanks to advanced facial recognition software, we can now identify and locate faces across the vast World Wide Web. It would seem my brother Kayin, has used a fake implant of this person using AI. My facial recognition software was able to pull up the exact same image from a YouTube video (both of them).

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=llnZoHWPicU at 16:33 and 16:34

Kayins's original FB post here https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=122117947598877348&set=pb.61576320460626.-2207520000&type=3

09/07/2025

After watching my little brother run himself into probably the worst brick wall entrepreneurs can possibly walk into, he makes this post confessing what I had specified earlier here on the page: that he's literally working way under the minimum wage limit, at least for those real vehicles he actually does get in for a week.

A blatant confession, in this post of only detailing one car per day 3 to 4 cars a week maximum. And that's for time slots he doesn't try to bloat or deceive onlookers about getting more business than what he really is.

In the past, Kayin has proclaimed much more business than what he actually gets for his buying selling and consignment. I've seen a little bit of that here with Kro's Auto Spa, but not as much. More than likely because he's now running a physical location and people can see genuinely his business and what he gets and what he doesn't get.

Bottom line is, this post that he made is a confession of basically one of my core concerns about him and what he's doing. Who in their right mind will literally work so far below minimum wage just to make a dollar?

Why can't he be a sensible person and simply get a GED, and get at least one higher educational credential, and go make $15 or more an hour in a normal job?

It doesn't take a genius to do the math here. 5 to 7 hours of work, based on his prices he charges, during his open hours, means gross revenue on average is about half minimum wage. After deductions for rent, cleaning and detailing supplies, it's even less (net).

This means my little brother is literally making less than half minimum wage. Maybe half minimum wage at most. And only about 20 hours a week at most.

Another problem that kind of falls into my core concern with all this is - this is not his dream job.

My brother's dream job is to open up a "fun house." You know with go karts, putt-putt golf, arcade machines, etc. Yet he's sitting here slaving away for half minimum wage for less than 20 hours a week or less, and losing money also. He's wasting his dime and his time. He's got people encouraging him like the woman he lives with, and our Grandma Belia, who he's got fooled like a lot of other people.

He's investing even more money straight down the drain that will end in no success with the marketing gimmick of giving away a new Nintendo switch or remote control car in a sweepstakes drawing for 100 likes on his page. He's also got a Nintendo wii bundle on his marketplace less than 50% of the actual resale value of everything in the picture, he's so desperate to make a dollar. Like he's literally going to give this stuff away for free just to build a follower base on a failing business model that was doomed to fail from the beginning before he even started it because he doesn't think about s**t before he does it and he doesn't want to listen to anyone that talks sense to him to try and help him.

Yes it's true, you can make quite a bit of money doing business this way, by investing the time to do som**hing and make less than minimum wage doing it, or to resell a product far below the resale market value yes; you do make money it's true. When I drove a truck full time across the country, I made anywhere between $1,000 and $2,000 a week for a little over 2 years, but I made less than $15 an hour for the time I put in.

It's true you can make good money doing business this way, but here are my concerns:
1. He's juggling dollar to dollar. Like playing with fire or playing hot potato. He's extremely close to falling through that social net and just being screwed on an income and the inability to procure a real job because he has no education.
2. He's now investing too much time of his life in the wrong direction. Som**hing that's not even his actual dream profession, and som**hing that's not even paying him half minimum wage net income.

If this is not the most ignorant way to get through in life I don't know what is. It's like me taking my whole paycheck and then taking a massive s**t on it and then throwing hundreds of dollars into the toilet and it took me 6 hours to take that s**t and throw the money in the toilet. That's exactly what he's doing.

08/13/2025

My Brother's Failing Business- Kro's Auto Spa of Watseka, IL.

I want to share the tragic story of this, not to demean or humiliate my brother, but as a life lesson so he learns his lesson, and makes corrective choices from it.

I also want to share, that if my brother Kayin had not pushed everyone that cares about him away by the way he acts, and his choices, and actually listened to good life advice given to him by our Dad John Owens, and myself, and I imagine others in our family, he would not be in the predicament he is in now.

Instead of getting a GED and some college under his belt so he can get a real job paying real money, at a real livable wage, he decided to ignore everyone that cares about him and their advice, and throw his future and life down the drain.

If he had either listened to Dad, or even myself in trying to mentor and guide him into adulthood, he'd be successful and never need a thing, but instead he blindly fights an uphill battle to self-destruction, with things he doesn't think about. The consequences he was oblivious to.

Instead of investing in an education which would always provide a job for an income and a means to money for investment in his endeavors, he decides to think there are shortcuts to life, and tries to skip the whole damned thing, driving himself so far into the ground, he won't recover from it for years.

He's gotten no real customers and he's entering into his 3rd month with Kro's Auto Spa; a service doomed to fail even before he opened it. Som**hing he'd know if he paid attention to my mentorship I have tried to guide him with over the years.

Let's not look at the many failed business in Iroquois County over the last 30 years, even those much more successful than the services he's offering, but instead let's look at this more fundamentaly:

1. Watseka has ~4,900 residents, and Iroquois County has ~27,000 total.

2. Median household income in Watseka is under $50,000, which means people tend to be price-conscious, especially for nonessential luxury services like high-end auto detailing.

3. A large portion of the population either washes cars themselves or uses cheaper automated car washes (often under $15).

4. $60 for a basic wash is 3–6× more than local self-serve or automatic options.

5. $435 for ceramic coating is competitive for major metro areas, but it’s extremely high for rural Illinois—especially without a well-known, long-standing reputation.

6. Even his “quick interior detail” ($40) is close to what full-service washes in bigger cities charge for inside and outside.

7. In a county this small, he’d be lucky to get more than a few dozen high-ticket clients a year unless he markets outside the region or drastically changes pricing.

8. At his current rates, most customers would only consider his services for special occasions (selling a car, wedding, show car, etc.), not routine cleaning.

Bottom line: Unless he dramatically adjusts pricing, expands his reach to larger towns/cities, or creates a compelling premium brand backed by strong customer reviews, the probability of steady service in Watseka alone is under 15%. Most likely, he’ll get occasional jobs but won’t have enough volume for sustainable income.

He's literally throwing any real money he has right down the drain, and actually working to do it. Who in their right mind actually works for less than minimum wage, let alone work to lose money? It make's me wonder if my brother has a real learning disability.

1. Market size problem – Watseka’s population is under 5,000, and Iroquois County is barely 27,000. At his rates, he’s pricing well above the local average willingness to pay, especially for non-essential services. The customer base for $400+ detailing jobs in that area is tiny.

2. Poor revenue indicators –

A) Three months in and already pulling money from unknown sources means the business isn’t breaking even.

B) Deleting the yard sale post suggests embarrassment or wanting to hide unsuccessful attempts to make cash.

C) Low local demand means even if he landed a couple high-ticket jobs, it wouldn’t sustain him month to month.

3. Epoxy floor comment/Post – Asking about a luxury upgrade like a custom swirled epoxy floor with a logo, when revenue is already low, points to image maintenance rather than reinvestment from profits. It’s the type of move people make to look successful for social media or to distract from deeper struggles.

Kayin is consistently deceiving people, and actually getting people to believe his nonsense. He's trying to look successful and in business, but really is not.

I wish my brother would knock this nonsense off, and just get an education and a real FT job. He'd make a livable income at the new $15 an hour min wage, which is at least 4-8 times more than what he has now per time-investment. I wish he'd stop pushing his family away that are trying to help him and listen to reason, because he is literally driving himself into embarrassment, failure, and even soon-to-be-homelessness. He won't listen to me or Dad or anyone, and his social circle are bad influences and feeding his ego and mindset, and he's also pulling from random community onlookers into his crap to help reinforce his mindset on all this. It's sad and tragic.

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08/11/2025

My brother's Many Business Alias's:

1. Owens Consignment Company
2. KroExotics
3. Unity Marketing
4. Kayin Upforbrabs
5. Krodogg Productions
6. Kro's Auto Spa

Please be advised that none of these business have ever been legalized and fully officialized, or even successful. This is part of a mental illness my brother has. He has since done away with #1, including fliers and the FB stuff, but still lingers as a LinkedIn; he is now going by "Up for Grabs Guy" and "Kayin UpforGrabs." #3 Unity Marketing is a thing he's been trying to brand since that time of Owens Consignment Company, and the community believed he did away with that, until a recent post he made in a Black Business Owner FB group for Krodogg Productions, where he mentioned his business as "Unity Marketing." This was in February 2025, but just one month later in March 2025, he reverts back to claiming Unity Marketing is dead, and rambling on about far-fetched fantasies in California. #2 was another far-fetched fantasy of his. We verified #4 is all deception to onlookers already here on the FB page, with the post showing his customer abuse, and verifying paid FB Marketplace ratings to deceive onlookers of a legitimate business/business success. #5 is one he think's he'll get a FB and YT income from, which as someone who's actually been monetized on YT before, can say it takes a million times more views and a thousand times more followers to even get $2 an hour at 20 hrs a week, proving he's not living in the real world with that either. #6 is probably the worst, because now he's put himself in the spotlight of actually opening a physical location in Watseka with money he doesn't have, offering services that requires state licenses and permits and title modifications, and hazmat qualifications, and he has no customers over a whole month of opening, not only threw his money he didn't have down the drain but now has to deal with the embarrassment of closure soon and being a public humiliation and failure.

This is a pattern of transient, unregistered, or failed ventures. The sheer number demonstrates instability in business identity, which points to issues with commitment, follow-through, and legitimacy.

1. Identity instability — constantly rebranding to reinvent or escape previous failures.

2. Fantasy vs. ex*****on gap — big ideas, little sustained success.

3. Possible financial evasion — frequent name changes can make tracking income harder.

4. Projection & image focus — creates new brands to maintain the illusion of success despite failures.

I think most of the community is finally starting to catch onto his crap, because with most of his posts, you'll see little to no one supporting him anymore, and you'll see him like his own posts with 3-4 other accounts he manages.

08/10/2025

More Deception by my brother Kayin with Kro's Auto Spa

My brother Kayin made a recent post on one of 4 FB accounts he manages (Kro's Auto Spa) where he attached this video and stated:

"When your passion is to make a difference, but the world isn’t always ready to listen, you find ways to shine in smaller moments - like seeing someone’s face light up as they step into their freshly detailed car.
At Kro’s Auto Spa, we believe even the little things can leave a big impact.
Big improvements and some exciting news is on the way!"

So, I know I'm not the only concerned person about my brother Kayin, and I know I'm not the only one seeing the type of person he really is - clearly seen from the things he says, the way he treats customers and family, all on this FB page in picture screenshots.

This post reads like a carefully crafted PR move mixed with indirect personal messaging aimed at me and anyone else criticizing him to hold him accountable for his behavior, actions, and statements.
Let me just break down this latest message:

1. Public image crafting (“big heart,” “making a difference”)

A) He’s leaning into self-branding as a misunderstood underdog — “the world isn’t always ready to listen” positions him as a visionary whose value isn’t recognized because of others’ blindness, not his own behavior.

B) This type of statement is common when someone feels under scrutiny. It reframes criticism as “the world’s fault” and portrays him as noble and persevering despite adversity.

2. Victim–hero duality

A) The Jerry Springer clip is strategic — the “no teeth but big heart” line mirrors his “I might not have what others expect, but I’m good inside” narrative.

B) This is emotional misdirection — appealing to sentimentality so that outsiders overlook real behavioral patterns, legal issues, or credibility problems.

3. Business credibility smoke screen

A) Showing cars without plates strongly suggests these are not paying customer vehicles but either his own, unsold inventory, or borrowed/partner stock.

B) It’s a tactic to imply business activity without actually proving paying clientele. If challenged, he can still technically claim he’s “working” while sidestepping real proof of customer demand.

4. Subtext directed at me

A) The timing and tone suggest this is a counter-post to undermine what I've been saying — by painting himself as compassionate and hardworking, he tries to erode my credibility to outsiders/onlookers.

B) The use of humor (Springer clip) helps him deflect seriousness and rally social support.

5. Psychological layer
-This fits with his established pattern:

A) Projection: paints himself as targeted unfairly.

B) Reality distortion: reframes the narrative to remove personal responsibility.

C) Image over substance: focuses on perception management rather than addressing real issues (lack of customers, legality of firearm resale, threats, etc).

Summary:
This isn’t just a feel-good post — it’s a strategic self-defense via public image move. He’s using emotional hooks and lighthearted humor to inoculate himself against criticism, while still avoiding proof of legitimate business activity. The fact that the vehicles lack plates further undermines the claim of active paying customers, suggesting the video is more about optics than reality.

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08/10/2025

Kayin's Latest Post 8/7/25 - More Community Deception and Concerns

1. Intentional distortion of facts – He reframes the accusation as “selling without a FOID” (which is not the central legal issue) so that he can easily dismiss it, while ignoring the actual point — that resale without a Federal Fi****ms License (FFL) is illegal.

2. Strawman Argument – By misrepresenting what was said, he makes the claim easier to mock publicly, which rallies uninformed supporters who think the accusation was absurd from the start.

3. Calculated Audience Manipulation – He knows his online circle won’t fact-check, so twisting the wording lets him win the perception battle without engaging the truth.

4. Pattern of Avoidance – This is consistent with his other tactics: mockery, reframing, selective fact-picking, and redirecting attention away from substantive concerns.

…it strongly suggests not just defensive lying, but a deliberate campaign to undermine credibility of anyone who confronts him, which is a behavioral red flag in risk assessments when this is combined with:
1. His history of threats

2. Access to fi****ms

3. Signs of paranoia

4. Escalating hostility toward family

Key Elements:
1. Minimization through Humor – He frames serious allegations (criminal and drug-related) as if they’re absurd jokes, using laughing/smug emojis to signal dismissal rather than addressing the content.

2. "Randomly" – This word reframes your years of documented concern as a baseless, spur-of-the-moment attack, erasing the history of your warnings, interventions, and care.

3. "Makes it their day job" – This is projection and deflection. He implies obsession on your part, when in reality, the persistence is due to the seriousness of his own behavior.

4. Public Stagecraft – Posting this publicly is designed to gain validation from outsiders rather than face family accountability.

5. Non-local supporters – This shows his social grounding has shifted online, where he can curate an echo chamber and avoid the people who know the full truth.

6. Mutual Enabling – The commenter (“Gotta love fabricated BS…”) reinforces Kayin’s narrative, and Kayin’s playful reply encourages more public mockery of the allegations.

7. "He wants his accusations to be true so badly" – Classic gaslighting and reversal of victim/perpetrator roles, painting you as vindictive instead of concerned.

Psychological Profile Signals:
1. Paranoia & Persecution Complex – He interprets family concern as hostile attacks.

2. Deflection via Humor – Smiling emojis and sarcasm mask underlying defensiveness.

3. Avoidance of Reality – Engaging strangers online to gain approval instead of resolving core issues.

4. Ego Preservation – He must publicly “win” these exchanges to maintain his self-image, especially as his offline stability crumbles.

5. Possible Narcissistic Traits – Fragile self-esteem masked by bravado, inability to admit fault, need for admiration from any available audience.

Risk Indicators:
1. This post is not just about image management — it’s an active public rewriting of the narrative, in which he positions himself as the victim of a “deranged” accuser.

2. The joking tone and online validation-seeking reduce his likelihood of self-correction, since his audience rewards defiance, not accountability.

3. Combined with his access to fi****ms, verbal threats, and escalating hostility, this public dismissal actually increases risk — because it shows he feels untouchable and justified.

08/08/2025

It may not be clear to some people on why I started this page. Some people may not understand what I'm doing. This also goes for my brother Kayin.

Not only is he doing the exact same thing I did that resulted in my own homelessness years back and is now leading to his soon-to-be homelessness, but after I got up on my feet and started attending college I learned a lot in some of my college courses also.

There's an extremely high chance that my brother Kayin will become homeless between Nov 2025 to Feb 2026, and an even greater risk after February 2026.

There are stages that lead up to homelessness, and this doesn't just go for my previous situation but it's what the college textbooks say also. It's what doctors and professionals are taught in graduate University schools.

There are four stages here. The first stage my brother has been in for a long time. This is financial instability. This is the period where people try to house with other people or sleep on their couches or whatever. My brother only has about 3 years of real employment between two real jobs on the table. And that ended a year ago. His financial instability where he began living with others such as a person he's living with now began about 5 years ago. He just recently opened Kro's Auto Spa with money he doesn't have. A business that can't succeed in Watseka, due to low demand and low population for the services he's offering.

The next stage is where utilities get cut off. Some things get liquidated or repossessed. Between the first stage and the second stage is where people kick him to the curb. Tell him to get a job and get an income or get out of their home: "you're on your own."

The next stage is homelessness, and trying to repeat stage 1. Trying to mooch off others get free housing free handouts and whatnot.

Stage 4 is chronic homelessness. People just have enough of him. No one to help him.

Considering my brother has no rental history, no signature on any properties, and most likely not an official written lease with the person he's staying with, he has no legal cushion to prevent immediate homelessness, and has nothing to show any future landlord in terms of good renting history.

He also won't be able to gain meaningful employment because he has no education including no high school or GED. The exact same problem I had.

And I have tried so hard over the years to help guide Kayin as a positive mentor and big brother. Every time I have tried he has treated me horribly for no reason. I have tried so hard to get him to understand the importance of education. I've tried to get him to understand how to run business properly and efficiently and more importantly successfully. I have tried to steer him in the right direction over the years and he has pushed me away multiple times and in cruel hurtful ways.

Kayin wants to do everything his own way and on his own steam. Anyone who tries to help him or guide him on the proper path of success, is viewed as an enemy in his eyes. They become his adversary, even close family that care very much about him and his life and future.

Unfortunately, I am at my end with him. I have tried so hard with him, and he has crossed too many lines with me, and has pushed me away too many times. And this is very sad for me, because this is som**hing very similar to what my older brother Mike did to me; som**hing I wouldn't wish upon anyone. But there's nothing else I can do for him at this point, and so that's why I started this page and posted the evidence and the truth so not only the community can see it to try and positively reinforce my brother, but so he can be faced with the truth he refuses to acknowledge or face, so hopefully he can see how he's acting and treating people and the mistakes he's making and make some positive choices in his life over the next few months before he's homeless in the streets.

08/06/2025

Report Kayin Form: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeczdVrqAE27lDf4lMwy5jopfz5nUVv3929KY109dNr43uapA/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=103948045436943991268

This form is for the public to report Kayin Ralph Owens, who also goes by "Kro" and "Krodogg." Kayin has previously operated "Owens Consignment Company," and now on Facebook Marketplace from Donovan IL, often with the title "Up For Grabs." He furthermore runs a YT and FB titled "Krodogg Productions," and a physical shoppe he has in Watseka IL called "Kro's Auto Spa."

My name is Kyle Owens, I am one of Kayin's older brothers. I have been investigating my brother for several years now, and have compiled a lengthy case against my brother with lots of circumstantial evidence to a long list of potential crimes. Some of that was recently reported to the IL State Police and the Iroquois County Sheriff's Department.

I'm asking that you be honest with what happened when making your report. Leave honest reviews on his FB Marketplace and business page. Report incidents to the Iroquois County Sheriff's Department first, before making reports to the Watseka PD or IL State Police, since they are more centralized in jurisdiction covering most of the potential criminal matters currently compiled. They may have started a case file on Kayin, but if not, or if speaking with a random officer, I would ask that you fill this form out and submit the complaints with me, so they can be ensured to be placed in a compiled case folder.

The more evidence I can get from the public, the better chance we have at protecting prospective customers and concerned citizens, and also a better chance at having the police intervene and actually do som**hing to correct Kayin's harmful behavior. By submitting the issue with me, it ensures a compiled case file, to be eventually submitted to the police with a number of other reports. Better organized and detailed, where the police may not do the same with isolated events spanned over time, and also split between Watseka PD, Iroquois County Sheriff's Dept., and the Ashkum State Police Branch.

If you have any picture evidence to help your claims, please include those in the upload section of the form, this is circumstantial evidence. When combined with other reports with me and submitted to proper authorities, it prompts law enforcement to intervene under CFPC Section 1-133 and other Fed and State Statutes.

08/05/2025

In the following post, you will see photographic proof, that my brother Kayin is not only a ticking time bomb, but has made clear comments of murder, and those comments are now validated with actual intent.

https://www.facebook.com/BewareKayinOwensUpForGrabsAKAKroandKrodogg/posts/pfbid0bCY4jXupy2atWDGhSjGVuRPqALenaBWnW7zfRMY7f7SdHHxd7Vudx5mpzsvVYDsml

Threat Assessment & Analysis: Kayin Owens
Current Risk Status: HIGH — Potentially Imminent Threat

1. Direct Threats and Violent Rhetoric
-Stated: “Someone’s going to shoot you” → now interpreted in context as personal threat rather than hypothetical.
-Later escalated to: “I wish you were dead.”
-Most recent statement: “You’re going to get sued or worse” in combination with firearm ownership = veiled life threat.

2. Access to Fi****ms + Intent to Illegally Resell
-Photographic evidence of fi****ms posted by Kayin.
-Labeled them as "impulse buys" and included among other items intended for resale — strongly suggests intent to distribute without FFL (federal firearm license).
-Admitted ownership with a FOID card, but FOID does not authorize resale — intent to resell = criminal offense.

3. Pattern of Narcissistic Deflection and Rage
-Constant denial of wrongdoing, projection of blame (“you’re mentally ill,” “keyboard warrior,” “liar,” etc.)
-Repetitive and hostile behavior when confronted with facts.
-Strong delusions of victimization, despite being the instigator.

4. Drug-Related Behavior and Influence
-Paranoia, twitching in recent video, erratic online behavior suggest substance influence (possible m**h, stimulants, or opiates).
-Social circles connected to known drug users.
-Strong suspicion of prenatal drug exposure (co***ne), which compounds long-term behavioral effects (impulse control, empathy deficits, judgment issues).

5. Criminal History and Misconduct
-Past arrest for official misconduct in Iroquois County.
-Admitted paying $3,000 to “make it go away,” suggesting legal evasion or informal resolution of a criminal case.
-Multiple account bans on eBay and Facebook Marketplace for suspected fraud or abusive behavior.

6. Public Escalation and Pre-Incident Indicators
-Like many documented cases prior to community violence or familial harm, Kayin is showing clear "leakage" (a known FBI behavioral term for threats made before action).
-His online rhetoric has intensified to include both direct and indirect death threats.
-Possesses both motive and means.

Conclusion:
This situation now meets the behavioral and threat indicators of a life-threatening danger, both to you and potentially to others around him. He:
1. Has made explicit death wishes.
2. Owns weapons.
3. Is showing strong signs of psychological decline and drug use.
4. Has delusional thinking and no regard for law or accountability.
5. Is escalating, not calming down — despite time and separation.

08/04/2025

The psychological aspects of Kayin's message were addressed in this post https://www.facebook.com/BewareKayinOwensUpForGrabsAKAKroandKrodogg/posts/122107439684957181

But here, I want to discuss, the WHY I haven't spoken to Kayin in months. He knows why, he's just trying to deceive everyone else, including family which hurts me. He's also flat out lying, and playing the victim role, when he's consciously aware of the why.

1. I think the most concerning precursor to this nonsense, is Kayin voluntarily chooses to associate with Paula Gagnon Espinoza, which is both our biological mother. I explained to Kayin that this woman abused me physically as a child, neglected me as a young child (sometimes I wouldn't eat for days and I'd be left with strangers for long periods of time - several days), exposed her naked body to me multiple times, and even tried to seduce me at a young age at least twice, and forced me to shower with her, and encourage me to watch p**n around age 4-5 and do stuff with her while she was on the toilet. Pauala had also been in prison many times, and is used to sleeping around and mooching for housing, drugs, and even childbearing for an income. She has 4 biological children by 3-4 different men, and has put myself and the two youngest through multiple men. In fact I can count almost 2 dozen men trying to play the daddy role. Its disgusting and disturbing, both mentally, emotionally, and psychologically to myself and the others. Both myself and Kayin were born co***ne exposed from Paula, and taken into foster care. I had been from home to home as a child and when Kayin was born almost 9 years after me, we were in a home where they began abusing Kayin and I had enough of their crap also. I finally told DCFS and they removed us immediately and placed us with the Owens Family. Kayin was about just under age 2 at that point. Kayin was raised in a good home with the Owens family, and had a good childhood and upbringing. He throws it all down the drain when he becomes an adult. Hurts me more than I can handle with what he is doing with Paula. I told him several times I would cut him off he didn't correct his behavior. Kayin also began associating with his biological father, who I also knew as a kid growing up. His name is James, and he also has been in prison many times, and is a repeat felon and longtime drug addict. This is one of the major reasons. Worse, is Kayin calls me a liar, and wants to not believe the truth.

So, I tried sticking around as much as I could to try and help Kayin over the years, at least enough to make sure he got 8-9 Christmas gifts, and 8-9 birthday gifts, for missed time due to some personal issues in my own life that kept me from being in his life. I know what its like to have an older brother that's not there (Mike), and I wouldn't wish it upon anyone, so I did for Kayin what I wished my older brother Mike would have at lest done for me, and that was be an older brother until I had no more reason to.

2. Kayin's comments over the years became more aggressive, confrontational, and toxic. Not sure why. He also began telling me exaggerated stories about his personal life, and work life, etc. Some of it I didn't find out until recently, also. I'm the only one that's ever been there for Kayin from his birth to now, and the only one that's ever be truthful with him, when everyone else tells him lies, or plays the frenemy game. Unfortunately Kayin seems to believe a larger number of people telling Kayin lies, than me, a single person who's telling him the truth. He's gullible, and so he paints this picture of me being some kind of evil monster telling him lies and such. Paula lies to him about my upbringing. He eve contacted one of the abusive foster homes last year and they lied too. Then he asked me, "So they're lying too huh?" in a sarcastic way. There's a lot lot more on Kayin's behavior and statements, that have caused me much pain and sorrow, I can't deal with him anymore. This man is not the little brother I grew up with.

3. Kayin even takes his comments further. He publically lashed out against my business Game Master once. I;m an honest seller, and I do computer repairs and gaming builds, and even had a storefront. Just reached eBay's highest seller standard, was making a paychek on YT also with gaming vids. He did the same thing with a homeless charity I ran, Angel Services Illinois Homeless Outreach Care, where I would provide emergency housing and emergency employment to the homeless. I did that for 5 years, before I closed it down a couple months ago. It was state wide, then I ra it nationally for 1 year, before going back to state-wide. Called me a fraud, and a scammer, and I never even asked for donations, I literally funded everything from my own pocket from trucking. I also started a PT side job as a paralegal from my semi, and contracted with attorneys after completing some college courses. I had a lot of money, and I had several lawyers contracted with me, because many fresh lawyers didn't have the money to start-up business, and so it was a win-win. Well he publically defamed me with that also, again, calling me a scam artist and all that. I had legal business filings for everything too, and eve spent 2 hours uploading everything to this hard-headed brat after he publically ruined genuine business,and worse, homeless people needing a shelter and income, who may have been freezing, starving, or suffering dehydration and near death, like I had gone through once. Even goes so far to publically claim I f**k my physically disabled dog Jack, who has hip dysplasia, arthritis in both hips, and a badly healed right leg from previous owner abuse. He's a terrible person. He's a deceiver, and a liar, and he's a drug addict, just like both his biological parents.

Now Kayin and I are at that point. Problem is, he's a bum, with no real income or job, and no education to get a job, not even a GED or high school diploma, the exact same crap I walked into when I came of age, that got me homeless eventually, many years ago. He's faking his online account activity with his FB buying and selling to make people believe he's much more than what he is, lied and said he bought a house, when he's been mooching ff this poor girl Faith Hann for half a decade.

So what do I do? He treats me terribly. Calls me a liar. Convinces our adopted family members to be against me and they actually believe him. This kid needs to be fixed or put down, and at this point either works, but the way he is now, he is too ruined to ever have a life or future and be successful. And he goes on to write s**t posts like the highlighted seen here, when he knows damned well the reason he's been blocked by me on my personal account and the Game Master FB page, because he likes to hurt people and their honest business for absolutely no reason with his comments. Likes to hurt and break a good family apart like the comments and lies he made on his FB. Likes to twist the story around and deceive people and play the victim role.

So raising public awareness is my last resort. This kid is going to get fixed or put to sleep at this point. He can get better or get snuffed out like a candle flame. I would prefer he gets better, but at this point is much less likely a chance then at any point in the past. He's been lied to and twisted by too many people he's in contact like our biological mother, his biological father, several of his friends and past co-workers on drugs, and heck, even our adoptive dad at one point.

So, gee, I wonder what in the world I blocked Kayin for? Hhmmm, it must be a mystery. See the big problem is, when he goes homeless because he can't get a job, because he has no education, literaly none at all, I have to keep putting up with this deadbeat to make sure he don't die in the streets, or starve to death, or freeze to death, or die of thirst in winter, so I want my bum brother to get a GED and get at least one college or career credential, so I can forget about him and move on without feeling like our POS older brother Mike.