03/19/2026
If you’ve ever looked at a rundown building, a dead storefront, or a stubborn “Why won’t anyone just…?” situation:
Same.
We've talked about this with our membership group and it seemed particularly apt this week since we're talking about vacant buildings.
It's a tricky problem because, frankly, not everyone cares, and sometimes the fastest way to burn out is trying to convert the unconvertible.
Some people are okay with things looking poorly.
Some people won’t engage.
Some people will never say yes.
And if you make your strategy “change their mind," you’ll waste years and maybe go a little crazy along the way.
A better strategy:
1. Start where you have control (your block, your business, your committee).
2. Find one other person. Two people changes everything.
3. Ask for small concessions. Small wins are real wins.
4. Double down on the ones who already care.
Hope isn’t something you wait for. It's a practice, and momentum is so much easier to create when you work with the willing rather than trying to convert the non-carers.
This is exactly the kind of practical, honest, real-world community work we unpack inside the Growing Small Towns Membership.
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