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14/08/2026

Case 2: विहेवारीबाट गफ गर्न दिएपछि समय समयमा अपडेट पनि गराउनु होला ।

यो कुरा सन् २०१९ तिरको हो । एकजना अष्ट्रेलियामा बस्ने केटी र अमेरिका बस्ने केटाको जोडी मिलाउँदाको कुरा हो । उनीहरुको विवाह त भएन तर उनीहरुले के के भइरहेको छ भनेर विहेवारीलाई भने अपडेट गराएनन् ।

केटा अमेरिकामा बस्ने केटा र केटीको गफ हुँदै गयो । केटी पेशाले नर्स र केटा पेशाले इन्जिनियर । केटा डिभोर्सड र केटी अविवाहित दुवै जना व्राम्हण । उनीहरुको गफ हुँदै थियो विहेवारीले उनीहरुलाई जोडिदियो । गफको सिलसिलामा उनीहरुले २०७६ देखि उनीहरु कुरा गर्ने थाले र २०७७ वैशाखमा विहे गर्ने पक्का पक्की जस्तो भयो । केटीले अझ औठीको नापोको लागि आफ्नो सुनको औँठी समेत पठाउनु भयो अमेरिका तर अपसोच विवाह भएन । किन भएन त भन्दा कारण यस्तो छ ।

केटाले अब हाम्रो विहे गर्ने हो नेपालमा जग्गा किन्न पर्यो भनेर केटीसँग २० लाख रुपैया माग्नु भएछ । केटीले अब आफ्नै त होनी भनेर पैसा पठाइदिछिन् । यता केटाले पैसाले घर जग्गा पनि किन्यो । उता पछि केटाले मेरो आमाले हेरेकोसँग विवाह गर्छु त सँग गर्दिन भनेर उसलाई धोका दिनु भएछ । यो सबै भए पछी बल्ल मलाई केटीले सम्पर्क गरेर यस्तो यस्तो भयो भन्नु भयो । अनि मैले हजुरले किन मलाई अपडेट गराउनु भएन त भन्दा म त मायामा अन्धो भएछु भन्नु भयो । केटीलाई केटाको भूतपूर्व श्रीमतीले कन्ट्याकट गर्न खोज्दा पनि व्लक गर्दिनु भएछ । किन ब्लक गरेको भनेर मैले सोधेको केटाले गर्नु भनेर गरेको भन्नु भयो । मैले आत्तिदै पैसा फिर्ता गर्यो त केटाले भनेर सोधे छैन भन्नु भयो तर पछि १ हप्ता जस्तोमा फिर्ता गरेछ ।

अब यसबाट के शिक्षा प्राप्त भयो भने
हजुरहरुले कुरा गर्दा विहेवारीलाई पनि भन्नु पर्यो फलानो मान्छेले यसरी पैसा मागेको छ ।

अनि यो केसमा केटीले त्यसरी केटाको भूतपूर्व श्रीमतीले उसलाई सम्पर्क गर्न खोज्दा के भएर डिभोर्सड भएको रैछ भनेर बुझ्नु पर्ने थियो । केटीले वुझिनन् ब्लक गरिन् ।

मैले मेरा यी अनुभवहरु हजुरहरु सामु किन सेयर गर्दै छु भने हजुरहरुले जीवनसाथी खोज्दा र छान्ने निर्णय गर्दा मेरो यो कुराले हजुरहरुलाई सहज होस् र सही जीवन भेटियोस् भनेर हो ।

#39 Female 31We were set up for an arranged marriage. He is from the USA, and I am from Nepal. We talked on the phone a...
28/02/2026

#39
Female 31

We were set up for an arranged marriage. He is from the USA, and I am from Nepal. We talked on the phone and chatted for almost a year. During that time, he said many times that he liked me a lot. He came to Nepal with the intention of marrying me.

However, at the last moment, he changed his mind. He said our horoscopes did not match, as his mother told him after consulting an astrologer. But since it was an arranged marriage, the horoscope thing had already been checked earlier and everything had matched perfectly. It was just an excuse. He married another girl.
After returning abroad, just a few days later, he contacted me again. He said he was forced into marriage by family , he is not happy, he has no emotional connection with his wife, she is young and their pov dont match. He even mentioned that he had only spent a few days with her and had no emotional or physical connection. He also said their marriage is not yet registered and that he has not spoken to her much since returning abroad.etc etc

I picked up his call once as I wanted to confront him. After that, I stopped talking to him, i am not interested to talk to him but he is still trying to contact me in every possible way.

According to him, his marriage was arranged within four or five days. Recently, I saw pictures and videos of his wedding somewhere, even though he has not posted anything on his social media. The wedding looked big and grand. He was smiling, laughing, and enjoying himself yet he says he was forced.

He even told me to give him some time and he would divorce her. he has just gotten married and is already planning about divorce .

I am at an age where I need to think about my future, Recently a proposal of marriage has come to me. we work in the same company but different branches . i know him very well so i am thinking of it . but that man know about my proposal through others he called me again and started his rant.

I clearly told him not to contact me again, or I would inform his parents. He casually replied that he is not properly talking to them after returning USa and he does not care about his family. I am going to tell his family if he disturbed me again or else what can i do ?

How can a 39 years old mature man claim he was “forced” into marriage?
I am sharing this because I feel frustrated and Experiences like this make it difficult to trust people and i feel somehow scared about marriage . For some people marriage is like a joke but When two people marry not only them but both families get united .

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