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#39 Female 31We were set up for an arranged marriage. He is from the USA, and I am from Nepal. We talked on the phone a...
28/02/2026

#39
Female 31

We were set up for an arranged marriage. He is from the USA, and I am from Nepal. We talked on the phone and chatted for almost a year. During that time, he said many times that he liked me a lot. He came to Nepal with the intention of marrying me.

However, at the last moment, he changed his mind. He said our horoscopes did not match, as his mother told him after consulting an astrologer. But since it was an arranged marriage, the horoscope thing had already been checked earlier and everything had matched perfectly. It was just an excuse. He married another girl.
After returning abroad, just a few days later, he contacted me again. He said he was forced into marriage by family , he is not happy, he has no emotional connection with his wife, she is young and their pov dont match. He even mentioned that he had only spent a few days with her and had no emotional or physical connection. He also said their marriage is not yet registered and that he has not spoken to her much since returning abroad.etc etc

I picked up his call once as I wanted to confront him. After that, I stopped talking to him, i am not interested to talk to him but he is still trying to contact me in every possible way.

According to him, his marriage was arranged within four or five days. Recently, I saw pictures and videos of his wedding somewhere, even though he has not posted anything on his social media. The wedding looked big and grand. He was smiling, laughing, and enjoying himself yet he says he was forced.

He even told me to give him some time and he would divorce her. he has just gotten married and is already planning about divorce .

I am at an age where I need to think about my future, Recently a proposal of marriage has come to me. we work in the same company but different branches . i know him very well so i am thinking of it . but that man know about my proposal through others he called me again and started his rant.

I clearly told him not to contact me again, or I would inform his parents. He casually replied that he is not properly talking to them after returning USa and he does not care about his family. I am going to tell his family if he disturbed me again or else what can i do ?

How can a 39 years old mature man claim he was “forced” into marriage?
I am sharing this because I feel frustrated and Experiences like this make it difficult to trust people and i feel somehow scared about marriage . For some people marriage is like a joke but When two people marry not only them but both families get united .

13/05/2025

38
Female
Age 26
I don't have anyone to share so I thought yaha share garam vanara ,my biggest heartbreak Mero almost 6 yrs ko relationship,Mero bf jaslai ma sabai vanda mathi rakhya thee usla nai Malai dhoka diyo , he got married,he left me family ko reason diyara ani within a month he got married 🥺 now he is happy with her Tara I am suffering daily k garam kaso garam ko sanga share garam,I don't know how to forget because we have made beautiful memories together Malai kaila lagana yo sabai hola Tara usla garyo he left me yati easily ki I can't do anything ma yai sochxu kasari khusi huna sakxa aru sanga aba ma arulai kasari trust garnu🥺kasari garna move on kasari birsana 🥺

12/05/2025

37
Female 21
Nepal
Is he is a red flag?
Hye I am from Nepal, my boyfriend lived in Australia,I love him so much, but I am so much younger than him, and doesn't complete my bachelor degree too, Ma rw Mero boyfriend ko almost eauta nai kura ma discussion hunxa, he told me ki xitai bihe garum xitai bihe garum, Ani I said him it's to early to get married at 21, I can't deal with people, can't hold responsibility , honestly I don't have that much capacity to handel that as well.ani sadai eautai kura ma discuss parxaaa ,Mai din deki communication ni smooth and transparent voirako xaina, reason is same I mention so what you guys suggest me upto here? In addition, he is my vauju mk Bhai, and I guess marrying at near can destroy relationship tho, can get more hurts I am really confused, how to solve this issues that's going between us , buz just in call nad text this issue are not getting solve..! Also, ma sadai sab kura transparent banauxuu, Ani Mero ek Jana baccha deki ko Sathi thyo, he is Kta Sathi ,kaile kahi uh snaga gumna janxuu vannda ni allowed nai gardainna is that really good? To obey it all?

12/05/2025

36
M28
Baneshwor
My girlfriend got married to a guy in Australia on Baisakh 2. Our relationship was more than 10 years old (our anniversary is on Ashar 19). I work in the IT field.
This happened 1.5 months ago. Until then, everything was going well between us. She received marriage proposals from 2 to 3 guys but she always said “no” and stayed with me. But when she got a marriage proposal from the guy from Australia, she accepted it.
I don’t know what happened to her. Suddenly, her voice/ behavior changed, started meeting less, and she started ignoring my calls and messages.
Then I realized—she wanted to end the relationship.
One day, I called her and asked to meet. We talked. She told me she’s getting married to the guy from Australia—everything has been finalized, including the dates and all the arrangements.
I was like, “What?” I froze in place, unable to move or react when I heard the news.
She said, “When will you go abroad? There’s nothing in Nepal. I’ve got the chance to go to Australia, please don’t ruin it for me, I hope you find someone better than me. Please forget me… and call.” HER EXACT WORDS
I thought—was I the only one who truly loved? Did she ever love me? Or was she just waiting to find someone better before finally dumping me?
Today, Baisakh 27. She called me and cried. She said, “I made a huge mistake, baby. Please forgive me. I shouldn't have gotten married, and now I'm regretting it."
I replied, “Please don’t call me. It hurts me more when you call. Please let me move on. You chose to get married and didn’t even tell me. Yeah, I still love you, but I can't make the mistake of accepting or talking to you. You need to take responsibility for your actions. Please don't cheat on your husband."
What actually happened was:
The guy she married raised his hand on her within 10–12 days of the marriage.
But I never even raised my voice, let alone hand on her. I always cared for her and treated her well because I truly loved her.
But the guy in Australia got her easily and didn’t value her at all.
I'm sorry. I should have supported you and comforted you, what you were going through, but no matter what I do, in the end, I’m always the one left hurt and alone.
So I stayed silent.
When she got married, I was so broken. I couldn’t sleep for days. I couldn’t focus on work. For 2–3 days, I didn’t feel like doing anything.
But after 5 days, I thought—why should I stay depressed like this?
So I started working on myself, took a week off, went hiking, traveled, spent time with friends.
Please help me. Did I make a mistake by not supporting her? I’m really in a dilemma and need some guidance.

20/05/2024

#35

Female
Age 29
I regret getting married. I feel so lost i have nowhere to go. Jindagi barbaad vo yaar😭

Idk who who needs to hear this but..

Ladies be independent. Make your own money. Bihe jun age ma gareypani hunxa trust me. Life ma bihe garna kailai hatar nagarnu. Mero ta bau aama le saath diyenan. Maile support nai garenan mero bihe ma paisa kharcha garey ani umkiye tara jindagi ko asli tah maile vognu pariraacha. Buda lai baal chaina mero. I have never seen such emotionally unavailable man in my entire life. Maile dukha sunaye kei bhaney bhane risaunchha.. maile victim play garey bhancha. Mero baal chaina. Ignore gardincha bolna man nalagda. Usko aama ko kura suncha. Na support garcha malai. Na care garcha na maya garcha. Period bhayera pet dukhda ta natak gareko bhancha. Usko aama le kei kaam garna parey par ma snga risauncha. He and his family is f*king up my mental health. K garam yaar? Yo self love bhanna matra sajilo ho kasari garnu self love ?

29/04/2024

#34

25 female
Ktm
Okay I have been married for more than a year. Thaha chaina is it for me only or for all other newly married girls. Afno ghar afno parents ra in laws haru jati nai afno jasto garera accept garna khojeni its not possible. Specially jaba tyaha unmarried daughter hunxa. Ho mero case ma tehi vaeraheko cha. Jati khera ni chori chori chori lai room ma lagera khwauna parne euta kei kaam gareko thaha chaina. Khali aaucha mummy vok lagyo mummy k Khane. Uslai kaam garauna parxa ni afai kina garya vanni. Afu vane euta kei gardaina room bata bahira sudda niskidaina aayo khayo sutyo. Ekdin khaja banau vanyo vane sutera bascha. Na ama chai le kaam araucha. Vetvab garne dekherae last irritating lagcha. Ama chori dubai ustae chan. Afu vaye bida vayo ki ekdin ghar basdaina. Ma ekdin maita janu paryo vane 3 4 choti postpone garera janu parxa kaile k kaile k. Usko father le malai matra khana khayo kayena sodcha re uslai sodhena re vanera aako 1 hapta nahudae royera tandav. Usle kura laune ama le behave garne. Tehi chaliraxa. Kahile bahira niskau jasto hunxa malai yo ghar bata.
Yo vayena tyo vayena as if uslai varipurna sab aaucha aru bekar jasto. Buhari vanya buhari nai hudo rahecha chori vanya chori nai. Malai chai tehi lagyo. Jhan unmarried chori ko ghar ma basna parya cha ahilei yesto para dekhaeraxa paxi jhan k hola. Roko vanera don't think she is too young.
She is a bit elder than me. Bihe agadi nai she dominated me saying she has more salary. Jabo teti salary timro mero ta suru mai yeti cha. Yo sab sano sano kura ho ghar ma Yo vanda badi jhelnu parxa jailei. Bihe chadai garexu ki k hunxa kahile kahi ta.

28/04/2024



25 F USA
I was married to a guy 4 years ago. He and I belong to middle class family.I was enrolled in government nursing job in Nepal. We used to talk since mine bachelor 3rd 4th year and He was in USA . We go married and I moved to USA after 6 months of marriage along him. Since , the first day our issue used to be he was more oriented and blindfolded by his mother. Every wrong thing said by her mother he used to fight with me. Her mother was a typical rural mother in law type who wanted to treat me like old sasuaamas used to treat.
I moved to US and got RN over there. Since, the first day he used to take control of every paisa that I earned and used to ask all my expenditures statement. Small issues and fights were normal and used to pile up. During covid time , my family-maaita had serious effect from covid and both father and mother had been admitted to ICU for 10-15 days. Being elder of family and my two unemployed brother, I send earned money despite his argument to nepal . That led to a massive fight. He is more money minded with no emotions. Whatever money I earn he wants to have full control of it.
He had loan of almost 1.5 crores for making house and marriage in Nepal. I used to send and save every penny for 2-3 month for the payment of loan. But If I pay for the single plate momos to mine brother that led to issue and fights. These issue used to pile up every day and he is alot of egoistic type. Whatever he does he never realizes mistake. I am short tempered type but immediately I do i

01/04/2024

#32

Age:23
Address:kathmandu
Gender: female
मैले आफैले आफैलाई मानसीक तनाब मा धकैल्दै छु। चित्त बुझाउने कुनै स्रोत नै देख्दिन। सानै उमेरमा बिहे गरे आफै जान्नी भयर। अहीले छोरी छ एक बर्षको बुढोको त्यस्तो राम्रो कमाई छैन खान पुगेको छ। मैले त्यत्रो ब्याचलर पढेर जागीर गर्थे बिहे भयको तिन बर्ष बढी भयो केही गरेकी छैन। बुढोलाई भन्दा पर्ख पर्ख मात्रै भन्नुहुन्छ। बिदेश नी जान दिनु भयन पैला अहीले छोरी सानी छ अलि समय पछी भन्नुहुन्छ। केही भन्यो के पुराएन भन्नुहुन्छ। पूराउनु पनि भयको छ।तर खाली बस्दा आफ्ना साथीको प्रगती देख्दा सार्है नराम्रो लाग्छ। माईतमा कमाउने कही छैन। बाबा नि बित्नु भाछ भाई see दिदै छ।यही ल्याएर पढाउन मन छ आफ्नो अबस्था गु जस्तो छ ।सोच्दा सोच्दा पागल नै भय जस्तो लाग्छ। कस्तो मज्जाले हाशीखुशी जिन्दगी थियो ।बिहे गरेसी ग्रहण लाग्यो। माया ,ख्याल नी गर्नुहुन्छ बुढोले तर मलाई के नपुग्या होला भनेर डाको छोडेर रुन मन लाग्छ। अरुलाई positive सल्लाह दिन्छु आफु पुरै negative छु।खिन्न लाग्छ आफ्नो जिबन देखेर आमाको दुख देखेर बाच्नै मन लाग्दैन ।केही कुराले मर्न सक्दिन। मेरो 3,4 बर्षको काठमाडौंको संघर्ष भोकै पेट दगुर्दा को अहीले भरी पेटले पनि बेचैन छु।कसैसँग केही भन्न सक्दिन मलाई यस्तो भाछ भनेर।♥️🥹

31/03/2024

#31

Male 30
USA vergina
Dear wife,
I don’t know how to start this confession. 2016 maa hamro bihe bhayo ani Timi staff nurse thiyeu timro dependent maa Australia Janey plan thiyo yehi sochera hamro family le hamro bihe gardinu bhayo.
Timi lai Australia pathaune financially help maile Garey mero ghar loan maa rakhera paisa nikalyera timro process garera Timi lai Australia pathaaiyo
Pahila visa timro lagyo tespaxi mero lagna parney thiyo Timi le process Garey paxi, timi ta Visa lagayera Australia gayeu starting maa ta timi le malai ramro saga bolyeu 2,3 month tespaxi timi le malai ignore garna thaleu bolna pani xodeu mero Australia KO process Pani gardenau maile call Garda message Garda leave me alone bhanera bhantheu.
Mero Australia KO sathi Bhai bata suneko timi Australia maa koi saga living together maa baseko xau re.
Maile Timi le process nagarney bhaye Malai mero paisa firta deu bhanera Pani Kati bhaney Tara Timi le nasuneko jasto gareu paxi timi aafai le divorce mageu.
Ma aile DV parera America maa xu 3 barsa jati bhayo maile yeha aayera CA class join Garey aile mero mero aile intern xa CA KO mero monthly salary $ 4500 USD hunxa mero intern sakera ma completely American CA hunxu tespaxi mero salary starting maa $9-12 USD hunxa Jaba maile Timi lai yo bhaney ani Timi le Malai feri message garera I’m sorry bhanera regret garna thaleu Tara abo malai Timi chaidaina mero life maa aroo naii koi aako xa asti bharkhar Nepal maa dentist garera USA aako keti saga ma relationship maa xu Timi Australia maa aafno life hera. Timi 2081 saal dashain maa Nepal jadai xau re milyo bhaney ma Pani aauxu ani divorce garam laa . Kunai Pani manxey lai ignore garna hudaina bhanney Kura Timi lai thaha bhayo hola paxi usko Pani din aauxa bhanney Kura hekka hos.
Goodbye mero hune wala Ex wife

27/03/2024

Bihe garney matra hoina paxi ko kura pani sochnus

Male
To whom it may concern
This message is for my beautiful wife, S***** Paudel, in Sydney, from Nepal. A year ago, we loved each other, and our relationship was going well. We planned for her to study abroad, and she applied for her visa. I paid all the visa expenses, including her ticket. We got engaged, and she left Nepal for Australia. Our relationship was good for the first 2-3 months, but then she suddenly stopped wanting to talk to me, slowly ignoring me😞. I don’t know why. I assumed that everything would be fine again after my visa arrived and I went to Australia. I’ve been waiting a whole year for my visa, and some of my colleagues sent me a photo of her kissing someone named Di*** Khanal in a park. I was shocked and later realized she didn't apply for my visa. Ani oe muj** Khanal taile aru ko budi udayara chai k pais? Aba tyo gold digger lai ta k vanam mero paisa frita de haina vane timar 2 jana ko photo leak garna naparos.
Okay, it’s her choice, but I want my money back, all 20 lakh with interest. I'm also capable of going abroad for study. I chose you because I wanted a partner who would help me and understand and love me. After that incident, she blocked me everywhere. I know both of you are reading this. Enjoy your life; it’s your choice, but give me my money back with interest.
Ani keta ho Nepal bata kt lai lagani garera jadai xau vane chai ki aafai ja haina vane kt ko var napar

27/03/2024

Female 29
Adelaide
Depressed and helpless wife
I am here seeking your suggestions please brother sister suggest me out:
Ma ra husband yeha ayeko 8 years vayo , love and arrange marriage thyo hamro , wahale ekdum manparayera chinjan vaera bihe vako .Ma just 20-21 thye bihe huda, alik immature ni thye. Relationship Thekai ramrai thyo but arule dekhda hami perfect couple thyem.
Time bitdai jada dherai changes auna thalyo life ma, ma mature hudai gaye I used to love him a lot but usko maya ghatdai gako feel hunathalyo.
Lekhdei jada dherai huncha, sidai point ma auchu.. ajkal hamro relationship kati pani ramro Chaina. Hami dindinai jhagada garne wala naramro hoina tara Maya nai Chaina. Maile jati ramro garna khojda pani usle wastai nagarne,sano kura ma ni mukh chodne. Usko baira affair haru kei vaera hoina. Ma ghutan ma bachiraxu, ussnga kati kura garey k vairaxa i am not getting any emotional support from you vanera. Ekdin sunxa ani feri ustai. Kailekai jhagada huda Paili pailiko kura garera torture dincha.
Like maile husband bta paune kei kura paxaina. Na Maya, na care . Ajkal ta aru ko agadi ni disrespectful huncha, Kasto embarrassing huncha malai . I have never expected my partner to be like this. Ma full time Kam garxu n full time paddai pani chu . Maile aye dekhi ni sedhai Kam Kam garechu .Kei jhagada hunasath taile padera hepis vanxa. Jaba ki I have encouraged him to study many times but uh k k course join garcha n napadi chodxa . We have 1 three year kid as well. Hamile ghar ni kineko xau . Tara Buda maya nagarne vayo vane kei khusi namilne raixa. Last time coffee date gako, dinner date gako, I love you vaneko ni kaile ho kaile . Ma ghumna jum plan banam Vanda ni uslai sathi haru sanga hidna paye huncha mero matlav Chaina . Ma ni manxe hu, mero ni expectations huncha vanda uslai kei wasta Chaina . Usko sathiharu kati xan xan mero ta ekdum limited chan, ma alik introvert ni chu , sathi nai uh ho vanne sochthye.
Ma k garu ? Yesari life ta katcha hola compromise ma Tara khusi ? Divorce garne baru eklai dukha garxu vanne soch auxa tara ka bta start garne ? Australia ma vae pani mero family ma usko family ma k asar parxa vanne soch auxa. I am totally frustrated ani vitra vitrai dukhi hunchu, eklai runchu. Ma ekdum helpless vaisake.

10/12/2023

#30
Male 31
Sydney
Wife cheated on me
Serious suggestion only please.

I am in a very difficult situation of my life. I am an engineer here with very good income. My wife is nurse and she also earns very good money. After being in a relationship for 6 years in Nepal, we got married. Now we are in our 4th years of marriage. So, in total, we both know each other for last 10 years. She was my first love in Nepal. I was also her first love. We came to Australia 4 years ago. We both have PR here.

We had very good marriage relationship. We used to have regular husband-wife s*x as well. Unfortunately, she cheated on me last week with another male nurse, both working in the same hospital. They were a very good friend with each other. I had also met that male nurse once. I was reviewing my car dash camera for another reason and saw that they both went to his home. She said she went to his home to complete one assignment because it was difficult. I know she had to do many assignments from hospital. She said that no one was at his home and they could not control the emotions. So, they made a relation.

I cried a lot infront of her when I found that das cam video. She also said everything to me. Although she didn't lie to me about this relation with this guy, but she cheated on me. I was planning for divorce with her. However, she cried whole day infront of me. She is requesting one chance. She is saying that she will never make any male friend, will not talk to any male person, but she just wants one excuse. She said that if she make this kind of mistake again, I can immediately divorce her.

I know once cheater, forever cheater. But I also know that divorce is not the ultimate solution and it is never an easy process. 99% of times, the outcome of divorce is not good. However, I was planning to talk both sides family in Nepal for divorce, but usle mero khutta nai dhogi. aba dekhi yesto galti kaile gardina. 1 choti lai maaf dinu. Nepal maa yo kura thaha vayo vane, she said she would do suice. In fact, both sides family have very good relationship in nepal. They frequently visit each other. So, I am keeping this event secret so far. I still love her so much. Euta mann le chahi, yesto lai divorce dinu nai thik huncha jasto lagcha. But arko mann le chahi, kaile kahi knowingly, unknowingly mistake huncha. 1 choti lai maff garidiu ki jasto ni laagcha. Divorce gare pachi pani maile arko keti bihe garna parcha. K thaha, arko keti pani yestai pari vane kati times divorce garnu. Mero wife le malai ekdamai maya garthi, I felt that each day since last 10 years. She was not this type of girl at all. But somehow she did a mistake. Ma chaatima haat rakhera vanchu, Maile aaja sammai yo junima mero wife baahek kasai sanga ni s*x relation rakheko chhaina. Afu saadhu-santa jastai huda ni wife le testo gari. Tei vara pani malai sarai nai hurt feel vai raheko chha.

Please please please suggest me what should I do? Should I forgive her once? Should I move to divorce?

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