26/06/2024
Dear Lady,
If you have a young man that loves you genuinely and you love him to pieces,
But this young Man is struggling financially and unable to kick start marriage proceedings, and you get tired of waiting for him AND you DECIDE to settle for a guy who is Ready, who you don't really love,
Please and Please, do well to reduce contact with that young Man that you Love to the bearest minimum.
That's how many extra marital affairs start.
That's how many paternity frauds happen. One thing will now lead to another, you'll now get pregnant for him and pin it on your husband.
You made a choice, we refuse to judge you for that, fact remains you are now married, face your marriage, work on it, and let go of any emotional distractions.
Don't be among those who will come to social media seeking advice; "I'm married, but I still love my ex, I'm jealous any time I see him with a Woman".
"I want to get pregnant for my ex boyfriend, I don't love my husband".
"Help, I'm MARRIED but I don't want my ex boyfriend to get married, I don't want to lose him to any Woman".
If I get these kinda messages from a married women seeking for my counsel, it irritates me.
Aunty, you can't be selfish and at the same time be stupïd.
Stop insisting on him chatting with you daily, calling him endlessly, begging to see him, wanting his attention and affection while your husband is there.
You broke up with him, don't break up his life too.
Leave him to heal, to chase his dreams, find love and get married like you too.
You can't eat your cake and have it.
You're telling him you still love him, what do you want him to do with that information? You're now another Man's Wife.
As a Lady, if for any reason, you marry or married the Man that is, or was READY instead of the Man that you LOVE, honor your decision.
Your Marriage Vow is greater than your Feelings.
STAY FAITHFUL........There's no excuse.
This same advice goes to the men too.
PrinceChuks
