01/04/2026
For those of you who are yet to choose a wife, listen carefully. I know we are in an era where beauty and fine shape is considered above good character. If you don't want to die young, choose character over beauty.
No woman is ugly if you have money. It is poverty that will make even your beautiful wife to look ugly. Your money will bring out her beauty. Beauty catches the eye, but character catches the storm. The elders say a fine wrapper does not guarantee good food inside.
Charm fades, bodies change, but character grows louder with time. If you marry a bad character, you have invited trouble to eat at your table daily. When choosing a partner, ask, how do they behave when angry, when denied, when nobody is watching?
Marriage is long term. Beauty is short-lived. I am saying this because some of you want to marry beauty. Just to make brotherhood proud of you. Go and ask any man who is 50 years. When you clock 40 years, you won't need her physical beauty again.
Your health and happiness will then depend on the peace of mind you get from your home. So if you married a beautiful Jezebel to please brotherhood, you alone will suffer it.