Akasha 向生命學習

Akasha 向生命學習 【非官方】內容多為節錄AKASHA生命學習圈所使用之不同書籍，欲究其旨，敬?

談論痛苦、了解自己家庭的病態和採取改變的行動並不一樣。改變的行動意味著放棄自己的控制，聆聽他人的觀點，並嘗試以他人而非自己的方法去做出改變。Talking about our problems, mapping out our family...
19/04/2023

談論痛苦、了解自己家庭的病態和採取改變的行動並不一樣。改變的行動意味著放棄自己的控制，聆聽他人的觀點，並嘗試以他人而非自己的方法去做出改變。

Talking about our problems, mapping out our family’s dysfunction is not the same as taking action. Action means that I’ve let go of control and I’m willing to listen to someone else and do it his way, rather than my own way.


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「屈從」和「投降」是有所不同。「屈從」的驅動力是罪惡感。「投降」是由接納羞愧感所驅動的。對於上癮的人來說，投降是遠離耽溺某些癖好後的第一個真正的自由。The distinguishing between “compliance” and “...
05/04/2023

「屈從」和「投降」是有所不同。「屈從」的驅動力是罪惡感。「投降」是由接納羞愧感所驅動的。對於上癮的人來說，投降是遠離耽溺某些癖好後的第一個真正的自由。
The distinguishing between “compliance” and “surrender”. Compliance is motivated by guilt. Surrender is motivated by the acceptance of shame. For an addict, surrender is the first true act of freedom since beginning the addiction.

殘障的意志代表不誠實及不誠實終將帶來的痛苦。當我們終於決定要改變耽溺的生活方式時，我們的痛苦已經到了很強烈的地步。
The problem of the disabled will is the problem of dishonesty and the pain that dishonesty ultimately brings. By the time most of us are ready to do something about our lives, that pain has reached a point of great intensity.

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要從共依存中康復，第一步即是要復原我們殘障的意志。這個步驟包括了放棄任何曾有過試圖控制行為的念頭。對來自病態家庭的人來說，改變的第一步即是投降和不再試圖控制。The first stage of recovery from co-depen...
29/03/2023

要從共依存中康復，第一步即是要復原我們殘障的意志。這個步驟包括了放棄任何曾有過試圖控制行為的念頭。對來自病態家庭的人來說，改變的第一步即是投降和不再試圖控制。
The first stage of recovery from co-dependence is recovering our disabled will. This involves letting go of any attempt to control the issues in our lives we've been trying to control. The first decision adult children, who want to grow up, need to make is to surrender.

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我們的靈魂之杯有破洞，那破洞會指出我們的發展曾受阻礙之處。倘若有某一項發展需求未在適當時機、以適當的程序予以滿足時，自我的能量就會在那個發展階段被限制住。The hole in the cup pf our soul mark the pl...
15/03/2023

我們的靈魂之杯有破洞，那破洞會指出我們的發展曾受阻礙之處。倘若有某一項發展需求未在適當時機、以適當的程序予以滿足時，自我的能量就會在那個發展階段被限制住。

The hole in the cup pf our soul mark the places where out development was arrested. When a developmental need is not met at the proper time and in the proper sequence, the ego’s energy gets frozen at the developmental level.


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人類的成長是由完全的依賴他人到獨立自主的過程。獨立自主的意思是做自己的主人─擁有自己生理、情緒、智能、精神及性的界限。要達到這一步，離開父母乃先決條件。The human cycle is characterized by moving f...
22/02/2023

人類的成長是由完全的依賴他人到獨立自主的過程。獨立自主的意思是做自己的主人─擁有自己生理、情緒、智能、精神及性的界限。要達到這一步，離開父母乃先決條件。
The human cycle is characterized by moving from environmental support to self-support. To become fully self-supporting involves becoming your own person – having you own physical, sexual, emotional, intellectual and spiritual boundaries. To do this we must leave our family of origin.


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在青春期，我們掙扎著要離家，脫離父母的保護。離家包括身體及情緒兩方面的分離，離家也意味著一個孩子的獨立，然而離家永遠是一件痛苦及困難的事。向父母道別及選擇自己的價值觀，是我們漫長而艱辛的成長過程中的一小段，而這個過程通常要到中年才能完成。O...
08/02/2023

在青春期，我們掙扎著要離家，脫離父母的保護。離家包括身體及情緒兩方面的分離，離家也意味著一個孩子的獨立，然而離家永遠是一件痛苦及困難的事。向父母道別及選擇自己的價值觀，是我們漫長而艱辛的成長過程中的一小段，而這個過程通常要到中年才能完成。
Our teen years are a time of monumental struggle to leave home and break away from our parents. Leaving home includes both physical and emotional leaving. Leaving home means becoming your own person. Even in the most functional family, leaving home is a painful and difficult task. Saying goodbye to parents and choosing our own values are parts of a long and arduous process, usually not completed until middle-age is resolved.


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深痛地體驗那種無力、無助和無法掌管自己的感覺，是走出共依存的一個重要關鍵。It’s crucial to experience the powerlessness and unmanageability that result from b...
01/02/2023

深痛地體驗那種無力、無助和無法掌管自己的感覺，是走出共依存的一個重要關鍵。

It’s crucial to experience the powerlessness and unmanageability that result from being co-dependent.


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11/01/2023

愛是一種承諾，需要克服懶惰和恐懼，願意冒險暴露自己，並冒著被拒絕的危險去付出。因此愛不是一種感覺，而是意志和抉擇的行為。真正的愛始於「自愛」，以及對自己的珍視；我們必須先學會重視自己才能重視他人，否則愛可能就是共依存的陷阱。
Love, is a form of work. It involves commitment the overcoming laziness and the overcoming of fear through the courage to risk exposure and rejection. Love is therefore not a feeling -- it is an act of the will and a decision. All true love begins with self-love. The work and discipline of love flow from a true sense of self-value. We have to know how to value ourselves before we can value others.


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28/12/2022

許多人認為結婚是找到自己的另一半，其實這是一種不正確的觀念，兩個不完整的人不可能有真正的親密關係。良好關係的先決條件是：兩個「完整」的人「決定」要共處在一起，然而他們都知道沒有了另一方，自己仍能好好的活下去。與這種觀點相反的是：追求一種糾纏不清或過分親密的關係，彼此都相信沒有對方自己就活不下去了。我們在年輕的時候被灌輸的觀念，使我們以為這種難分難捨的關係才叫真愛。女人們更是被教導要把命運託付給一個好男人，並把自己的一生奉獻給他。這種真愛其實是一種耽溺性的關係，雙方都相信自己不能沒有對方，只要其中的一方成長或者改變了，這樣的關係便會陷入危機當中。
It was hard to believe that he believed she was his better half? This notion of two halves making the perfect marriage is an extremely dysfunctional notion. Two incomplete people cannot make a good relationship. A good relationship demands that there be two whole people who choose to be in the relationship and know that each can live without the other. The opposite of this is an enmeshment or entanglement, wherein both persons involved are convinced they cannot make it without the other. We are taught at an early age to call this inseparable relationship true love. Women especially are taught that their destiny is to find their true love and give their life to him. What is described as true love is actually an addictive relationship. Two people come to believe that they can’t live without each other. Such a relationship is jeopardized if either partner starts to grow or change.


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共依存是一種生存的狀態，也是一組不健康的行為特質。表示一個人失落了他內在的真實世界，而對外界事物形成一種耽溺、上癮、不能自拔的生存狀態，彷彿是依賴外界的某些事物以求生存，而對那些事物所引發的問題視而不見地沈溺其中。Co-dependency...
21/12/2022

共依存是一種生存的狀態，也是一組不健康的行為特質。表示一個人失落了他內在的真實世界，而對外界事物形成一種耽溺、上癮、不能自拔的生存狀態，彷彿是依賴外界的某些事物以求生存，而對那些事物所引發的問題視而不見地沈溺其中。
Co-dependency is the most common family illness because it is what happens to anyone in any kind of a dysfunctional family. Anyone, who becomes controlling in the family to the point of being experienced as a threat by the other members, initiates the dysfunction. This member becomes the primary stressor. Each member of the family adapts to this stress in an attempt to control it. Each becomes outer directed and lives adapting to the stressor for as long as the stress exists. Each becomes co-dependent on the stressor.


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