30/06/2024
I want to share my little anonymous secret.
I was 32 when I met my husband. He was almost 37 and single. He didn't really seem like a man of my type, but I was a bit desperate. I needed to settle down. He is not really fluent in English and acts a bit barbaric, not how I imagined my future husband. He's a plumber, and he gets a lot of work. He travels often, but he is home most of the time, too.
I wouldn't have agreed to marry him if I was young, though I would have dated him because he has money and is equally generous.
He is a nice-looking man, but he doesn't dress or sound like it. A woman like me wants someone who is good-looking and knows how to dress and speak fluently as well.
I really was reluctant when he brought up the idea of marriage, but I had to agree because I was 33 by then, and I felt like no better man was going to come my way. I had good men I was talking to, but none of them was interested in marriage or marrying me per se.
After we married, I started hating myself for settling with such a man. We barely attended any corporate event. His friends are all local, and he is always about us doing local things.
I am ashamed of him, so I don't even like staying by his side when we were out.
Long story short, I got pregnant for someone else because I don't really enjoy being intimate with my husband. He turns me off because I don't find him attractive. The guy I got pregnant for is equally married. He is the one I wanted to marry before he dumped me for someone else. We dated for two years and I was madly in love with him. I couldn't handle the heartbreak, but when I realised in marriage that I'd married the wrong person, I reached out to him, and we've been intimate ever since.
I'm not in love with him, I just like being intimate with him because I find him to be more of my dream man than my husband.
I had my child in January last year. My husband thinks he is the father, and I am not worried about DNA because it would never cross his mind. It's the literate who disturbs women with DNA. This is a secret that would never come out because my husband is convinced the child is his, and I never told my ex the pregnancy was his.
I just found out I'm pregnant again, and I don't even know which of them is responsible for this one.
My problem right now is that my ex mentioned that he wished I could give him a child. He and his wife have only one child. The woman is battling with PCOS, and my ex is in need of a son badly. My first child is a boy, and it's his, but I don't know what would happen if I tell him. He can't be trusted so I fear to reveal this truth.
I wish that he knows the truth and puts the child in his plans. Please, what should I do? He is richer than my husband and would give the boy a better life, to be honest. Please post anonymously and let your audience advise me, thank you.
No judgements please
Me : Her past does not matter ? They say - She did what ? reached out to him.. She did what ? Have kids with her dream man she still do not love but he’s what? richer than her husband !! Finally what did she do? she’s very confident that their minds will never go to DNA
Someone will say it’s a fiction, even simps cannot believe this can happen but until a woman tell you the true reason why she married you must men are married to women who only got married to them for reasons such as
1. Age no longer on her side
2. The guy is from her tribe
3. The guy is from her community
4. The guy attends the same church
5. The guys family loves her not that she loves the guy
6. He was the only one who have been begging to marry her in years
7. He’s the only one with money amongst the men coming
All these reasons are not enough for you to marry a woman and if she gives you these reasons check her past and don’t ignore it..
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